Rare Reminders from Christians on Recent Broadcasts that Fornication is Wrong and That Older Celibates Exist

Rare Reminders from Christians on Recent Broadcasts that Fornication is Wrong and That Older Celibates Exist

On tonight’s “Harvest” show, hosted by Greg Laurie, aired on TBN, Laurie told his audience in very strong terms that the Bible does not condone sex outside of marriage. He said it doesn’t matter if you love the other person and practice “safe sex,” that God is still not fine with sexual activity outside of marriage.

A day or two ago, Christian singer CeCe Winans was host of TBN’s “Praise the Lord” program, where she interviewed a married Christian couple (I don’t recall their names).

The wife of the couple said she was a virgin until she got married, and she did not get married until she was 38 or 39 years old.

Not only that, but the audience (which is presumably made up of Christians) applauded her for that admission.

So quite possibly there are at least some Christians out there still who are supporting, and who believe in, refraining from sex until marriage. It was nice to see someone admit to being past age 35 before getting married and then having sex upon marriage, rather than before.

It’s a nice change from the usual testimonies from all the Christians on these shows who admit they “blew it” and slept around numerous times, only for the Christian host to turn to the camera and reassure other fornicators,
“Aw shucks, but don’t feel so bad if you have sex outside of marriage, because God will forgive your sexual sin! Just stop doing it and start practicing secondary virginity! Be a spiritual virgin now!”

Reminder and disclaimer:

As I’ve said NUMEROUS TIMES on this blog before, it’s not that I am hoping for pastors to go all Pharisee on sexual sinners and stone them to death with rocks

– but –

I at least want them to start making it abundantly clear when discussing sexual sin, God’s grace, and God’s forgiveness that the Bible none-the-less still teaches that God expects people to exercise self-control and remain virgins until marriage, even if they are 35, 45, or 75 years old.

No more of this “Laissez-faire,” La-Dee-Da, lukewarm, watered down, ‘every one has sex outside of marriage, so go ahead and do it, and God will forgive you for it, nobody expects you to remain celibate past the age of 17 years old, and hey, we totally understand it and get it if you’ve had sex outside of marriage’ garbage.

3 thoughts on “Rare Reminders from Christians on Recent Broadcasts that Fornication is Wrong and That Older Celibates Exist”

  1. “I’d rather find out how the guy who never got trapped in the sin to start with – despite living in a culture saturated in sex, managed to avoid it than to hear a story from John Doe who fell into the sin then got out.” I happen to agree with you one hundred percent. And thank you for that encouragement. I don’t hear it often. John

    1. I suppose there’s a debate to be had there.

      I was thinking of doing a new post about a similar topic: celebrity testimonies, or something like that- and I don’t mean testimonies about sexual sin in particular, but evangelical Christianity’s odd habit of constantly parading people, -usually, though not always- famous types, who claim to have sensational background stories where they used to abuse drugs and shoot people, but they found Jesus, and they are perfect angels now. I actually find such testimonies annoying and maybe even counter productive or “un-realistic advertising”.

      Personally, it makes more sense to me to interview the guy who never caved into Sin X, whatever Sin X is. Bible says, “If you want to be smart, hang out with smart people. Want to be rich, hang out with millionaires.”

      Want to find out the secret to celibate success? Ask someone who is 40+ yrs old, no sex. Don’t ask the 50 year old who admits she slept with 145,000 men from age 15 to 35, starred in X rated movies, but found Jesus at 36 yrs old, and is clean now. Others may disagree with me on that. I’d rather find out how the guy who never got trapped in the sin to start with – despite living in a culture saturated in sex, managed to avoid it than to hear a story from John Doe who fell into the sin then got out.

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