Married Women Engage in Sexual Sin – and most men in denial, particularly Christian conservatives
Yes, married people, wives, engage in sexual sin. Most preachers are in denial about this and prefer to assume sexual sins ensnare UN-married people.
The following site not only is another example disproving that contention, but also the popular Southern Baptist, Fundamentalist, and evangelical belief that only men want and enjoy sex, while women only want cuddles, to admire rainbows, or to hand-knit pot holders.
(Link): Why Married Woman Have Affairs
- “After researching women’s sexuality for more than ten years, I can honestly say that most of our societal beliefs about females are grossly distorted and many are completely erroneous.”
– Michelle Langley, author of Women’s Infidelity
If you’re a male, like most other males, you would probably never suspect that your partner is cheating, not only because of your wife’s or girlfriend’s seeming disinterest in sex; but also because you have the belief that your wife or girlfriend is a “good girl.” Unfortunately, males are frequently left/divorced by their wives and girlfriends without ever knowing about their wives’ and girlfriends’ infidelities.
If you’re a female, like most other females, prior to cheating on your partner you always proclaimed yourself to be “not the type” who would ever cheat. However, also like most other females, after they have cheated, you’re shocked and appalled by your behavior; but at the same time you can’t stop cheating.
Women’s relationships and marriages will continue to follow this same pattern unless we develop an accurate understanding of females ─ particularly in regard to their sexuality. In fact, after researching women’s sexuality for more than ten years, I can honestly say that most of our societal beliefs about females are grossly distorted and many are completely erroneous.
The media has finally begun to acknowledge, albeit to a small degree, the widespread problem of female infidelity. Recently, several books and articles have attempted to explain why women are now cheating as much as men. However, none were successful in their attempt.
All of them left out very important pieces to this extremely complicated puzzle. I believe the majority were simply unable to find all of the information necessary to figure out the problem. Although, I’m certain that some were just afraid to disclose certain key pieces of information because the truth, quite frankly, is so contrary to our current beliefs. Unfortunately, without these missing pieces, it’s impossible to understand, and to subsequently fix, the real problem occurring in relationships today.
Female infidelity will not only continue to be extremely common but it will also continue to be on the rise
Women are cheating and relationships are ending because men and women lack necessary information. …
Women’s Infidelity: Living In Limbo Explains:
Why females push males for commitment
Why females “think” they’re naturally monogamous and why males think so too
Why women can’t tell men what they really want
Why women like getting married but not being married
Why women lose sexual desire for their husbands and what women really do want sexually
Why women are more likely than men to become addicted to affair sex
Why marriage and fidelity can actually be MORE difficult for women than it is for men
Why women overwhelmingly initiate the majority of all divorces – even when they’re married to men who love and treat them well
Why and how men unknowingly make the problem worse by doing exactly the opposite of what they need to do in order to fix the problem
….For several reasons, which I explain in my book, infidelity and marital limbo are quickly becoming the norm for women and, as I’ve already pointed out, women are also initiating 70 – 75% of all divorces.
Chapter 1
Are Women Naturally Monogamous?
The stages of sexual desire women often experience after marriage
Chapter 4
The Commitment Game: Female Version of Pursue and Discard
The female crisis; What do women really want sexually?
Chapter 6
Why Women Find Affair Sex Particularly Appealing
Does it take more than one man to please a woman sexually? What is the cause of men’s fear and denial?
Christian Pundit 
“Yes, married people, wives, engage in sexual sin.”
Now days especially because the screwed up dating system has taught them how to be whores. And since women are no longer financially dependent on their man, they don’t even have a second thought about cheating. Rather than starving if they do, or having to move back in with mommy and daddy, they take his house, his car, and get spousal support, and probably end up in a better financial position than if they were faithful! They can cheat on him, divorce him to get with some other guy, and get to take a huge chunk of his savings. Its a great system…if you’re a whore.
There seems to be a hella lot of hostility towards women in some of your replies. I have posts on here about the sexual failings of men, or other sins by men, specifically husbands (View Examples and Here: View Example)
While I do believe the Bible does not condone fornication (sex outside of marriage), and I do think most churches are a bit too easy on sexual sin, I don’t believe in going the opposite route, becoming too judgmental about it. Recall that Jesus forgave women who fell into sexual sin.
It’s a good thing that women are not forced to rely on men any more. The Bible teaches personal responsibility for all persons and inter-dependency, not for one person to depend wholly on another.