Speak For Yourself, Melissa Gorga (reality TV star supports marital rape)

Speak For Yourself, Melissa Gorga (reality TV star supports marital rape)

People like this get married, and people like me remain single. Something is definitely amiss.

This is another example of…
1. I’m glad I’ve never married.
2. Christians are lying when they tell you that marital sex will be awesome

She gets into this thing where she claims “all women want to be dominated.” No, we do not. Do not speak for me. (Correction: one site says that is her husband’s comment in the book – that is his view on women.)

(Link): ‘Real Housewife’ Melissa Gorga’s New Book Advocates Marital Rape

    Real Housewives of New Jersey star Melissa Gorga has written an advice book, Love Italian Style, for people who want a marriage as hot and happy as the one she has with her husband Joe. Her entire ethos on the subject boils down to this sentence: “Husbands want their wives to submit; wives want our husbands to dominate.”

    The amount of sexism, gender essentialism, and caveman logic within its pages is so appalling that it’s difficult to believe that her book is anything but a cry for help.

    It’s very clear—from her anecdotes, observations, and tips—that she’s married to a controlling asshole that barely views her as human, let alone an equal. He won’t “allow” her to go on overnight trips without him, he has a say in the clothes she wears, didn’t want her to get a job (even before she became a mother), and he has gotten violent when Melissa does things that he doesn’t like.

    … On why your whore single friends are bad for your marriage [excerpt from book- example of ISOLATION OF SINGLE WOMEN]:

    Listen, we all love to hang out with our single friends. Who’s more fun? But, let’s call a spade a spade. You can’t make a habit of it when you are married. It’s always better for your relationship to go out with people who have more in common with you. You are less likely to get yourself in trouble…[T]oo many…”Girls’ Nights” with the single ladies can only lead to temptation.

(Link): Real Housewife Melissa Gorga ‘supports marital rape’ in her book

    A Real Housewife has come under fire for promoting ‘marital rape’ in her book about how to ‘keep the romance alive and the home fires burning’.
    Melissa Gorga who came to fame for her role on Real Housewives of New Jersey has penned a book about her marriage and one portion that her husband Joe contributed is causing outrage.

    ‘Men, I know you think your woman isn’t the type who wants to be taken. But trust me, she is. Every girl wants to get her hair pulled once in a while. If your wife says “no,” turn her around, and rip her clothes off. She wants to be dominated,’ he wrote.

    ‘Women don’t realize how easy men are. Just give us what we want.’

    The couple’s sex life is discussed at length in the book by both of the Gorgas, and Melissa advocates both ‘real passionate sex and maintenance sex’.

    ‘Maintenance sex keeps the wheels greased, the lines of communication open, and the fights to a minimum,’ she wrote, according to Jezebel.

    Her frequent mentions of fights that are avoided using sex has raised some eyebrows about their tempestuous relationship.

    ‘In the beginning, Joe wanted to have sex every single day, at least once, if not twice or three times…If I didn’t give it to him once a day, he’d get upset,’ she wrote.

Your husband is an entitled, selfish, immature asshole.

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