Loving the child-free people in your church by S. Burden

Loving the child-free people in your church

(Link): Loving the child-free people in your church, by S. Burden

Excerpt:

Ways to love the child-free people in your church:

    Let them know you see them.

    Child-free people often feel invisible, especially in the Church.

    In what can only be described as an odd theological leap, churches often glorify marriage and parenthood as the greatest Calling in life. Clearly, Jesus disagrees (as does Paul).

    The big, beautiful body of Christ is supposed to be our first family, and it’s time we started acting like it.

    Take time to sit with those without children and ask them to tell their stories; honor their journey (and their anger or sadness, if they are experiencing it); include them in your body life; bear their burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.

    Some of the kindest things ever said to me include these: “This is so hard, and I don’t know how things will turn out, but I am standing with you in this. You can count on me.” “How can I encourage you in this?” “This desire you have is a good desire from God. And I will faithfully pray for you in this.”

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