5 Scientifically Proven Reasons It’s Better To Be Single

5 Scientifically Proven Reasons It’s Better To Be Single

This is a change. We singles are usually told why it’s better or more healthy to be married.

I want to say I don’t totally agree with all of the things on the list. Some adult singles do not have a “strong social network” and some in fact do pine to get married and do cry into their ice cream alone on Valentine’s Day.

(Link): 5 Scientifically Proven Reasons It’s Better To Be Single


    by Lauren Friedman

    Crying into a pint of ice cream alone on Valentine’s Day? Talking through your problems with your cat? Taking your mom to your office holiday party?
    Hardly. These are absurd stereotypes of singledom — not the reality.

    “[Does] getting married result in lasting improvements to mental health, physical health, or any of the other supposed goodies?” asks Bella DePaulo, a psychologist at the University of California, Santa Barbara, and the author of Singled Out. “The answer … is no.”

    Marriage and partnership have their perks, but scientists have shown again and again that being single has a long list of benefits.

    Here are five big ones:

    2. Fit body

    When researchers surveyed more than 13,000 men and women between the ages of 18 and 64, they found that the ones who had never been married exercised more each week than those who were either married or divorced. This effect held even after controlling for age.

    You could argue that single people have more time, are more concerned with keeping up appearances, or are less likely to have children (something a later study pointed to as the real contributing factor), but that would be pure speculation — and the end result is the same.

    Another study based in Australia surveyed thousands of women about their level of physical activity. When they followed up four years later, those who had gotten married in the interim were much more likely to be “inactive.”

    Source: American Journal of Preventative Medicine, 2003; Journal of Marriage and Family, 2004; Journal of Physical Activity & Health, 2010

    3. Strong social network

    Does it ever seem like friends who couple off suddenly pay less attention to you? That’s because it’s true. “Multiple studies [have shown] that married people are less likely than single people to help, support, visit, and maintain contact with friends, family, and neighbors,” DePaulo writes. The same is true for partners who are unmarried but living together. One study even showed that once people get married, they have less contact with their siblings.

    Marriage and cohabitation mean much of a person’s love and attention is focused on one person. Single people, meanwhile, may have more emotional energy to share with friends, siblings, parents — and themselves.

    Source: Journal of Marriage and Family, 2004; Contexts, 2006; Journal of Marriage and Family, 2012

    4. No settling

    People who can embrace being single are less likely to end up settling for unhappy partnerships, feeling stuck and unfulfilled. One study found that a fear of being single made people much likelier to “settle for less,” prioritizing relationship status over personal happiness.

    This is especially important because while there’s a stigma against growing old alone, people perhaps have more reason to fear ending up in bad marriages.

    One study of 1,649 people 65 and older found that “married persons who felt inequitably treated were more distressed than persons who had always been single.”

    Source: Psychology and Aging, 2006; Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 2013

You will have to click the link at the top to read the entire list.
Related posts:

(Link): Top Eight Reasons Not To Marry by Bella DePaulo

(Link): Singled Out – about being single in today’s society

(Link): Standing Alone – Churches continue to ignore a large portion of society (single adults)

(Link): ‘Why Are You Single’ Lists That Do Not Pathologize Singles by Bella DePaulo

(Link): Widows and Childless and Childfree Have Better Well Being Than Married Couples and Parents says new study

(Link): Study: People today living alone more than ever before (posted 2013)

(Link): The Jetson Fallacy – Much longer lifespans could explode the nuclear family (article)

(Link): Married Men — Not Women — Are Fatter Than Their Singleton Counterparts

(Link): Do Married Couples Slight Their Family Members as Well as Their Friends? / “Greedy Marriages”

(Link): The Changing American Family (article)

(Link): American Christian Divorce Rates Vs Atheists and Other Groups – throws a pall over Christian Fairy Tale Teachings about Marriage

(Link): The Art of Sleeping Alone / No Sex Please, We’re French (article)

(Link): Live alone? You’re not alone (from CBS news)

(Link): Married People Who Find Themselves Single Again – Spouses With Dementia / Married People Who Are Lonely

(Link): False Christian Teaching: “Only A Few Are Called to Singleness and Celibacy”

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