Less than half of U.S. kids now have a “traditional” family
The author of this page suggests that “policymakers” need to come to terms with the changing face of the US family, but I would suggest that Christians and churches need to do so as well.
Too many American churches ignore, exclude, or mistreat (when not ignoring) anyone who does not fit the “married with children” demographic.
Christians have turned parenthood and marriage into Idols they worship, and they seldom if ever talk about, talk to, or minister to people who have never married, widowers, and infertile or child-free people. There is far too much focus placed on “the family” by Christians.
- Christopher Ingraham
December 23 at 8:27 AM
- Picture the typical American family: what do you see? You probably imagine a married mom and dad with a couple of kids — think the Draper family, circa Season 1 of Mad Men. You probably know that that ideal has held true for fewer and fewer families over the decades. But (Link): new data from the Pew Research Center shows that fewer than half of American kids now grow up in one of these “traditional” families.
- As of 2013, only 46 percent of U.S. kids live in a traditional family structure of two parents in their first marriage. An additional 15 percent live with a parent who has been (Link): remarried at least once, 34 percent live with a single parent, and 5 percent have no parent at home — this latter group is most likely living with a grandparent, according to Pew. By contrast, 73 percent of American kids lived with a traditional family back in 1960.
- Looking at the chart, it’s clear that the change is less a function of remarriages, and more due to the sharp rise in single parenting. As Emily Badger (Link): wrote last week, 41 percent of births these days are to unmarried mothers. Among black mothers, that figure rises to an astonishing 72 percent.
- Researchers are in general agreement that children of unmarried parents tend to have a tougher time in life: more poverty, more instability, and more problems at school, among other things. But it’s less clear what type of policy measures we might take to address these issues. As Emily noted, it doesn’t make a whole lot of sense to encourage mothers to stay in relationships that may be abusive or otherwise more harmful to their children’s health than going it alone.
- But it’s clear that the American family has changed dramatically over the past 50 years, and will likely continue to evolve. If policymakers of any political stripe want to help American families succeed, the first step is coming to grips with what that dramatic change looks like. For the majority of U.S. children, the traditional nuclear family is an ideal that doesn’t reflect reality.
(Link): “Who is my mother and who are my brothers?” – one of the most excellent Christian rebuttals I have seen against the Christian idolatry of marriage and natalism, and in support of adult singleness and celibacy – from CBE’s site
(Link): Male Christian Researcher Mark Regnerus Believes Single Christian Women Should Marry Male Christian Porn Addicts – another Christian betrayal of sexual ethics and more evidence of Christians who do make an idol out of marriage