Jeff The Married Church Attending Guy Who Likes to Wear Diapers and Be an Adult Baby
Because you may think I am making this up (I can assure you I am not), there is a video below in this post from a clip of this episode.
I don’t hardly ever watch the TV show “Cheaters,” but I was up really early a few mornings ago and watched the last 5 – 10 minutes of one episode.
The husband in the episode (I believe his name was Jeff) was sneaking around with another woman behind his wife’s back. The “Cheaters” TV show crew caught him in bed with another woman, and he was wearing a diaper.
His wife, Susan, came in to the motel room, confronted the “mistress” (or whatever she was) and started screaming at Jeff her husband.
Jeff claimed there was nothing sexual going on, it was only about him pretending to be an adult baby.
One of the TV show crew asked Jeff why he couldn’t just tell his wife about this fantasy of his about being an adult baby rather than just sneak around behind her back, and he said something like, “You just don’t understand, I can’t! We are church people! We go to church!”
At another point in the show, the wife yelled, “You stopped going to church a few weeks ago…”
That brings me to this point: a lot of Christians tell single, adult Christians who would like to marry that-
- You are still single in spite of trusting God for a spouse because you’re too bad or too immature (or too ugly, too dumb, too whatever) to deserve or merit a spouse, and God is forcing you to improve yourself before he’ll send you a spouse.
- and, Christians will tell single Christians it is sinful for them to marry a Non-Christian (the equally yoked rule)
In light of stories such as this one, where we have an adult, married man meeting another woman at a motel behind his wife’s back so he can pretend to be an “adult baby” tells you that no, God is not requiring anyone to clean up their own lives, be more mature (be more whatever – more smart, more pretty, more thin, more X, Y, Z) to “earn” a spouse…,
And, this story also tells you that…
This adult, middle aged man (or is he a 20 something?) wearing a diaper and sneaking around behind his wife’s back goes to show you that just because a man is a Christian and attends a church regularly (or used to), does not mean he is a quality life partner. It makes the Equally Yoked rule look totally foolish and unnecessary.
Even if this guy is truthful and there was nothing sexual about his Adult Baby play- acting, I personally would be weirded- out and too disgusted to stay married to a man if I found out he was fantasizing about being a baby, seeing other women behind my back to indulge this fantasy, and wearing a diaper.
I would rather marry a normal, sane Non-Christian man who is not going to do weird things such as wear a diaper and pretend to be a baby, than marry a self professing, church-going man who wears diapers and wants to pretend he is an infant.
(Link): Diaper Cheater video on You Tube
(Link): What it’s like to be an adult baby diaper lover – on Metro
‘It feels great sitting in a wet and soiled nappy. For a normal person it would be horrible but for me it feels comforting, while also naughty and humiliating.’
Mark,* a 35 year old who lives in South London, is an adult baby. He has a fetish known as ABDL, which stands for adult baby diaper lovers. For Mark, his fetish began in early puberty, as, ‘a sense of wanting to be a baby again’.
He says it also had a sexual side from the beginning:
‘I’d fantasise about a teacher I fancied changing my nappies. Sometimes at night I’d put all my underpants on at once, to try and feel like I was wearing a nappy. That was when I came for the first time, in a non-wet dream scenario.’
While some involved in ABDL argue there is nothing sexual about it, and that it shouldn’t be classed as a fetish, views within the community vary – and even those who protest ABDL’s innocence send mixed messages.
…Daddy Derek, who looks after adult babies at a nursery near Cardiff, tells me on the telephone that he isn’t willing to do an interview as he still feels burned by a 2015 feature in the Liverpool Echo.
And Nanny Luna of the ABDL London Nursery tells me to ‘f*** off’ then slams the phone down when I ask if she’ll talk to me about working with adult babies.
Nanny Prudence, who’s based in London and Brighton, agrees to speak to me, but with the following proviso:
‘Please be respectful. I always refuse interviews as usually they become sensationalised and twisted. But I feel the adult baby community is misunderstood, and wanted to be open and honest.’
…Nanny Prudence’s clients are aged 25 to 65, and over 95% are male. She tells me there’s a myth that adult babies are all wealthy and in powerful positions, and she sets out to debunk this, explaining:
‘I’ve had bankers, CEOs, a vicar, and politicians, but also taxi drivers and students. No one picks their fetishes. It’s something that emerges as a part of you – you become aware of it, and either bury or embrace it.’
Wearing a traditional nurse outfit, or a 1950s style dress with heels and seamed stockings, Nanny Prudence offers bottle feeding, baby talk, play time and down time, which consists of listening to lullabies. She also changes her clients’ nappies, ‘wet only, no poop.’
Nanny Prudence doesn’t mind the wee, explaining, ‘I just wash my hands afterwards. I prefer not to wear gloves. I’m not germphobic.’