‘My marriage is damaged as I can’t maintain an erection – even for a minute’
What about that Christian promise that marital sex is always hot and satisfying? I guess that is just a bunch of bunk.
So, this married couple has never heard of oral sex?
DEAR DEIDRE: MY marriage is damaged as I can’t maintain an erection – even for a minute.
It has nearly always been a problem for me, although we have managed to have two little girls.
My wife is 34 and I’m 36. Just recently it has become a whole lot worse.
What embarrasses me is that I am the one who initiates foreplay and sex.
She doesn’t play any active part to help, though. If I can’t keep it up, we just stop. I don’t blame her for not bothering because it all amounts to nothing, but I’m finding it so frustrating and she isn’t even showing she cares right now.