Male Baboons Get Health Benefits from Platonic Friendships with Females

Male Baboons Get Health Benefits from Platonic Friendships with Females

I guess the animal world doesn’t care about the sexist, stupid “Billy Graham Rule.”

Maybe the sex-obsessed Christian church can learn a thing or two from these baboons? I’m not saying humans should always look to other animals to dictate their behavior, but this is one instance where it may not be a bad idea.

(Link): Male Baboons Get Health Benefits from Platonic Friendships with Females

by Erin Blakemore

A growing body of research hints that for nonhuman primates, purely platonic relationships come with big benefits.

A study that draws on decades of research about baboons is adding to a pile of cross-species evidence of the protective power of friendships.

…Male baboons don’t just interact with females when they want to mate: They also engage in platonic grooming, a behavior known as a way for primates to bond and destress. 

Researchers found that both males and females were more likely to survive in any given year if they had close friendships. Males with baboon besties were 28 percent more likely to survive at any age.

…That’s similar to humans. But unlike humans, whose survival is linked in part to socioeconomic status, a higher place on the social pecking order didn’t help baboons. The most dominant males were 13 percent more likely to die at any given age than the least dominant ones.

The scientists believe this may be related to the big trade-offs male baboon bodies make for the traits that guarantee social status. Male baboons with high testosterone have a reproductive advantage, but the hormone suppresses their immune system. They age faster, too.


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