Russian ‘Sex Coach’ Was Repeatedly Stabbed in the Head by Her ‘Jealous’ Husband
As I was saying on Twitter, the older I get, and I continue to see such news stories as the one in this post, the happier I feel to be single and celibate.
I cannot believe as I grew up that the evangelical / Baptist / Protestant culture brainwashed everyone to think that being single is “second best” and being chaste over the age of 25 was “impossible” or somehow “not worth it.”
I see so many people who, as teens or adults, are not happy from having sex outside of marriage, or they get married, and they have a sexless marriage, or their spouse abuses them.
You’re ultimately not going to find healing and hope in another person (i.e., a spouse).
This news story should be another sign to Christians who keep peddling false notions about singleness, dating, sex, and marriage that sexual purity is not for singles only.
You have married people out there who think it’s acceptable to work as “sex coaches,” or open their own “only fans” accounts, or to “wife swap” (see links under “Related” below for examples).
Churches need to remind MARRIED people that sexual purity is for them as well. It’s not single adults that are falling into sexual temptations left and right, it’s married couples who are.
I don’t approve of this married woman’s “sex coach” occupation, but no, I sure don’t defend the husband stabbing her to death over it, or for whatever reasons he had.
Note that these are two married people who had a couple of children together. The pro-marriage and pro-have-children Christians and conservatives are wrong to teach (as they do) that getting married and having children will always (or even usually) make people more godly, loving, mature and ethical.
by Will Stewart
Sept 22, 2021
A Russian ‘psychologist and sex coach’ was repeatedly stabbed in the head by her husband who then threw her body from a 130ft-high building.
Rustam Mursalov, 24, confessed to killing his wife Alexandra Mursalova, 25, out of ‘jealousy’, according to reports.
Mursalova, who had two children with personal trainer Mursalov, worked with wealthy clients in St Petersburg.
Her own relationship appeared to be in crisis before her death, with Mursalova sharing frightening details of alleged threats made by her husband with her thousands of social media followers.
Just one week ago, she posted that Mursalov had threatened to stab her and their children, aged seven and two.
…After killing his wife, Mursalov went on the run before eventually giving himself up to police, according to local media.
Citing law enforcement sources, Mash media reported that, under interrogation, he ‘confessed that he had planned the murder of his wife’.
‘He prepared a knife and took the children to their relatives so that they would not see this horror,’ the sources were quoted as saying.
‘On the evening of September 21, he was waiting for his wife, and she arrived with another man.’
…Mursalova’s body was later thrown from a 13th floor balcony, followed by her bloodstained jacket.
In social media posts, she had written about how her husband was jealous of her earnings.
…’Money is a constant brake on our relationship,’ she posted. ‘Today my husband said that money spoils everything and one day I will have to choose, him or the money.’
She wrote despairingly: ‘I love my husband, but I’m not ready to give up my desires and dreams.’
In another post she said: ‘Is there any exit? Now I believe I must move to Europe.
‘F*** these Russian standards where a woman always ‘ought to’ [behave in a certain way],’ she wrote.