British Father, 29, Who Walked Out On His Partner And Children For a Ukrainian Refugee Reveals He’s Broke After Losing Work Over Their Affair
Updated Below, September 2022
I meant to blog about this story a few months ago when it first broke – but I have so many links to so many articles already saved, I’m having a difficult time getting around to blogging about them all!
I have no sympathy for this guy. What a dirt bag.
And once more, this goes to show that most hyper marriage promoting Christians are wrong to teach that marriage makes people more loving, godly, responsible, or that a person has to achieve some kind of state of perfection or godliness before God will allow them to marry.
If dirt bags like this guy managed to get married in the first place, trust me, there’s no reason God is withholding a spouse from you, just because you fall short of your pastor’s desire for you to read your Bible two hours a day, or whatever stupid spiritual standards you think you have to meet before God will “allow” you to marry.
I wonder if this refugee woman is with him out of true love or just using him? If she’s just using him, I won’t be surprised if she dumps him whenever something hotter, sexier and/or with more money comes along.
July 18, 2022
A British dad who left his partner to run off with a Ukrainian refugee ten days after she moved into the family home says he has no money.
Security guard Tony Garnett left partner Lorna Garnett, the mother of their two daughters, for Sofiia Karkadym, 22.
The family had sponsored Sofiia as a refugee from the country torn apart by Putin’s invasion.
But Tony fell in love with her in their Bradford home, sparking a furious row that split their family.
The 29-year-old has now revealed he has lost work because of the affair, and is caring for Sofiia full time after she contracted an eye infection which left her partially blind.
He told the Daily Star: ‘I’ve been trying to get by and survive with Sofiia with nowt.
‘I want to show people that I’m not a scrounger for government benefits, I know what is right.
‘I used to have a very successful business. I’ve dedicated myself to it, some weeks I put over 80 hours a week into it.’
Tony said that he ran a security firm that had contracts he lost due to his relationship attracting so much attention.
He added: ‘Now and again I’m sending door staff to pubs and clubs but I’ve gone from earning nearly 2k a week to earning jack s***.’
Four days ago MailOnline told how Tony had released a rap criticising ‘an ex’.
A video of the hip hop effort was posted less than 24 hours after he was hit with a court order preventing him from contacting Lorna after she alleged he had sent her abusive texts.
Hours after the court hearing on Wednesday Tony put out a YouTube song called ‘Ukraine to UK Rain’ in which he accuses an ‘ex’ of being ‘two-faced’ and playing with his emotions ‘like a video console’.
…Tony’s former partner Lorna, 28, told MailOnline that she had seen the video and understood the lyrics to refer to her.
Calling the accusations in the lyrics ‘complete lies’, she said: ‘Under the terms of the court order I’m not allowed to discuss him on social media, but the things in that song which are obviously about me are complete lies.
Updates. September 26, 2022
(Link): EXCLUSIVE: British father, 30, SPLITS from Ukrainian refugee accusing her of ‘irrational behaviour, not handling her drink and stabbing a wall’ – just four months after he dumped his partner of 10 years and mother of his two children to be with her
Sept 26, 2022
A security guard who started a relationship with a Ukrainian refugee after he and his long term partner gave her a place to live has dumped her following a furious bust-up, MailOnline can reveal today.
Tony Garnett, 30, claims he has thrown out Sofiia Karkadym, 22, after accusing her of not being able to handle alcohol and using a knife to damage a wall at their rented home.
With her belongings now in black bin liners ready for collection, he also accused her of interfering with his relationship with his two daughters, saying that he would always put them ‘first’.
Tony fell for Sofiia just days after she started living with him and his partner of ten years Lorna Garnett, 28, who is the mother of his two children.
He and his now ex-girlfriend made headlines in May after he left Lorna and moved out of the family home with his new lover so they could start a new life together.
In an exclusive interview with MailOnline, he revealed today: ‘I am 100 per cent through with her. We are finished as a couple.’
Tony claimed that matters came to a head when they rowed on Saturday night while celebrating his 30th birthday at their home in Bradford, West Yorkshire. He said he ended up calling police after Sofiia apparently damaged a wall, leading to officers attending the address.
Tony told MailOnline how he had become ‘fed up’ with what he described as her irrational behaviour during the four-and-a-half months they were together.
He said: ‘I can’t take her abuse or anger any longer.
‘I left Lorna and my two children for her, and I made every extra effort I could to help her keep us together.
…’Yes, I felt and I thought I was in love with her. But there is a side to her which I just cannot put up with any longer. She gets angry and aggressive.
He claimed that: ‘On Saturday night she picked up a knife and stabbed the wall several times.
…Heavily tattooed Tony added: ‘I have made a mistake going into a relationship with Sofiia.
‘As I have said before, my relationship with Lorna was already over and I was really unhappy.
(Link): EXCLUSIVE: Moment Ukrainian refugee dumped by her British lover was ARRESTED after ‘trying to kick down his front door screaming ‘I love you, Tony!” before baffled police ‘found her hiding in bushes’
Sept 27, 2022
This is the moment a Ukrainian refugee who was dumped by her British lover was arrested after allegedly trying to kick down his front door while screaming ‘I love you, Tony!’
Police were called and found Sofiia Karkadym, 22, in the bushes after she made a desperate attempt to try and win back 30-year-old security guard Tony Garnett.
But Tony – who made headlines when he left his partner and children for IT manager Sofiia after they welcomed her into their family home when war broke out in Ukraine – refused to open the door.