Study: Porn Use by Men Could Be Reason For Declining Marriage Rates / Double Standard by Many Single Men: Single Men Too Entitled, Picky About Dating Criteria
So a new study says that the rise of porn use may be one reason behind the declining marriage rates.
But Christian sociologist Mark Regnerus says Christian single women should totally seek out these porn-addicted perverts as potential spouses, LOL. (Seriously, he did argue this point, read this).
I’ve seen Christian men in comment sections on other blogs act all offended or butt-hurt when women like me say, “Thanks, but no thanks, not interested in dating or marrying a porn user or porn addict.”
Christian men who object think we single ladies are supposed to show them all sorts of “grace” about their sexual sin (including porn viewing), and that porn use is just like any other sin, no big deal.
Sorry, no. Some women may not care about porn use or addiction, but some of us do, and that is our right.
I do wonder if the Christian men in the comment sections on other blogs who are butt-hurt that single women want nothing to do with porn addicts/users are porn users themselves.
It’s interesting how men, even Christian men, feel entitled to have criteria in dating or in marriage, but these same men do NOT believe that women should be allowed to have criteria.
Many single men are VERY picky and judgmental concerning who they are willing to date or marry.
Christian single men of all ages, even the 65 year olds, all demand and expect to marry a 25 year old woman, or a 45 year old who looks as though she is still age 25.
If, however, women have any criteria, preferences, or standards concerning whom they wish to date or marry, such as, “I’d rather not date or marry a male porn user,” men get very angry and miffed on web forums and blogs about this.
Men start lecturing us single ladies how we should not limit our dating pool to non-porn users.
But ask these same male idiots if they’d consider dating or marrying a woman who is 15 or more pounds overweight, who is over 35 years of age, or who is a brunette, and they instantly say, NO.
Most men feel it is their right to have criteria in selecting a partner, but we women are supposed to consider any and every man who takes a fancy to us – nope, not gonna do that.
I’d rather stay single. I have a right to choose for myself who I want to date or not date.
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(Link): Rise of internet porn could be to blame for lower marriage rates, study claims, as men find ‘low-cost sexual gratification’ without being tied to a relationship
- Pornography is an ‘important factor’ in the decline in marriage formation
- Researchers said it was ‘disrupting traditional family arrangements’
- And found policies like the UK’s porn filter could reduce useage
- By DANIEL BATES FOR MAILONLINE
- The rise of Internet pornography could be contributing to lower marriage rates, a study has found.
Men use online porn for ‘low cost sexual gratification’ because they don’t have to deal with the emotional complexities of a relationship.
The researchers said it was ‘disrupting traditional family arrangements’ and backed Britain’s porn filter – because it may increase marriage rates.
In their paper the researchers write: ‘If one of the important reasons to get married has a low cost alternative, then it is natural to wonder about the extent to which one can replace the other.
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