Resident Christian Marriage Advice Writer at Christian Mag Admits Some Christian Marriages are Sexless

Resident Christian Marriage Advice Writer at Christian Mag Admits Some Christian Marriages are Sexless

This is oh so funny. 😆 The promise you are made as a Christian single is that if you save sex for marriage, sex will be great, and it will be frequent. But it turns out some marriages are sexless.

(Link): Sexless Marriage Help and Information – article on “The Christian Post”

      BY JOE BEAM, CP GUEST COLUMNIST
    October 5, 2013|11:49 am

The extent of the research and the methodology employed far surpassed any study before it. Published by the University of Chicago in 1994, the “public” version of the report was provocatively titled Sex in America. The scientific version carried the duller title of The Social Organization of Sexuality.

Though all sex studies are controversial, this one did its homework in its attempt to avoid research flaws and to get as true a representation of America as possible.

Trained workers interviewed 3,432 scientifically randomly selected American men and women across America between the ages of 18 and 59.

One unexpected finding was that sex is not happening as much as most folks thought. The research indicates “about a third have sex with a partner at least twice a week, a third have sex with a partner a few times a month, and the rest have sex with a partner a few times a year or have no sexual partners at all.”

How do those numbers change if you leave out singles and consider only those that are married? It seems that 20% of married couples between the ages of 18 and 59 have sex with each other ten times or less per year.

Another 15% have sex with each other about twice a month or less. The “ten time or less” couples are often referred to as no-sex marriages (or sexless marriages) and the “about twice a month” group as low-sex marriages. In this article, we’ll combine them into the term sexless marriages.

Why should sexless marriages concern Christians? First, there is a Biblical imperative that should prevent Christian couples from having sexless marriages, but they exist anyway. Second, ample research exists to show that marital satisfaction and sexual satisfaction rise and fall together.

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Related posts this blog:

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(Link):  Newlyweds Forced to Be Celibate After Bride Diagnosed With Cervical Cancer Just Days After Honeymoon

(Link): Gotta Maintain that Propaganda that Married Christian Sex is “Mind Blowing”

(Link): Jason the Christian’s Sexless Marriage – Christians promise hot regular steamy married sex but it isn’t true

(Link): Getting Married Does Not Necessarily Guarantee Frequent Hot Satisfying Sexy Sex – Husband is Sexless for Eight Years (article)

(Link): Article: ‘Getting to the Root of Female Masturbation’ / Also: Virgin woman gets next to no sex in marriage

(Link): Rebound Guy and No Sex

(Link): Her Marriage is Sexless While She Cares For Sick Elderly Father

Ladies with Husbands and Boyfriends – Beware of Revenge Porn

Ladies with Husbands and Boyfriends – Beware of Revenge Porn

(Link): Victims Push Laws to End Online Revenge Posts

    By ERICA GOODE
    Published: September 23, 2013

    … Revenge porn sites feature explicit photos posted by ex-boyfriends, ex-husbands and ex-lovers, often accompanied by disparaging descriptions and identifying details, like where the women live and work, as well as links to their Facebook pages. The sites, which are proliferating, are largely immune to criminal pursuit. But that may be changing. California lawmakers this month passed the first law aimed at revenge porn sites.

    With cellphone cameras ubiquitous and many Americans giving in to the urge to document even the most intimate aspects of their lives, revenge porn has opened up new ways to wreak vengeance.

    The effects can be devastating. Victims say they have lost jobs, been approached in stores by strangers who recognized their photographs, and watched close friendships and family relationships dissolve. Some have changed their names or altered their appearance.

    … But when victims call the police, they are invariably told there is little to be done. Lawsuits sometimes exact payments from men who post photographs or succeed in shutting down a site. But once the images are online they spread, picked up by dozens or even hundreds of other Web sites.

    When Holly Jacobs, a woman in Florida, changed her name to dissociate herself from the photos posted by her ex-boyfriend, she found them linked to her new name. And the owners and operators of the Web sites are in most cases protected by federal law, which largely absolves them of responsibility for material posted by third parties.

    “It’s just an easy way to make people unemployable, undatable and potentially at physical risk,” said Danielle Citron, a law professor at the University of Maryland, who is writing a book on online harassment.

    … As the sites have increased, legal scholars and women’s advocates have begun to push for criminal penalties for people who post on them. Only New Jersey has a law that would allow for criminal prosecution, although it was not written with revenge porn in mind.

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Related posts this blog:

(Link): Beware of Rapists on Christian Dating Sites

(Link): Creepizoids Weirdos and Perverts on Dating Sites

(Link): Police urge caution when using dating websites / Murderers on Dating Sites

Married Couple Charged With Making Dog Porn (wife had sex with dogs while husband filmed it)

Married Couple Charged With Making Dog Porn

Oct 16, 2013 update:
Should I be disturbed that this one post has been in the Top Post results of this blog for the third week in a row (stats show it’s one of the most-read posts on the blog)? I must get some kinky visitors to the blog. 😆
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People who have sex with animals or who film it should be tortured slowly and then shot to death by police or other law enforcement.

Anyway. See, this is another example that marriage does not make people more mature, godly, or sexually pure than singles (un-married people), so take that, you prejudiced against singles married Christians.

I’m a never-married woman, but I sure as hell have never had sex with any animal, nor would I ever consider it.

(Link): Couple arrested for making porn with dogs

(Link): North Carolina Soldier And Wife Charged With Making Dog Porn

    A Raeford, N.C., woman is accused of having sex with dogs while her Fort Bragg soldier husband filmed them. The couple posted the videos on the Internet, police say.

“Anything you can ever imagine a man and a woman doing to each other, she was having the dogs do,” Raeford Police Chief Franklin Crumpler told The Huffington Post on Tuesday.

(Link): North Carolina soldier, wife charged with making dog porn

(Link): North Carolina Soldier and His Wife Arrested for Making Dog Porn

    Ruben Chance James Fox and his wife, Amber Nicole Fox, both 23, were arrested Monday morning in Raeford, North Carolina and charged with multiple counts of crimes against nature involving bestiality, disseminating obscene materials, and conspiracy. Amber Fox was additionally charged with soliciting a crime against nature. Ruben Fox is a soldier with the 82nd Airborne Division at Fort Bragg.

(Link): NC soldier arrested for making porn with dogs

    RAEFORD, N.C. A Fort Bragg soldier and his wife are accused of engaging in sex acts with dogs and then posting video of the encounters on the Internet.

… The Foxes are charged with multiple counts of crimes against nature involving bestiality, disseminating obscene materials and conspiracy. Amber Fox also is charged with soliciting a crime against nature.

Raeford officers seized two mixed-breed dogs and three cats from the couple’s home and placed them in the care of a local shelter.

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Related posts this blog:

(Link):  Pervert Who Regularly Has Sex With Horses is Married to Human Woman

(Link): Man who had sex with CHIHUAHUA (small pet dog) jailed after wife spots him abusing family pet on security camera

(Link): Married Youth Pastor Father of Four Caught Raping and Molesting Several Little Boys claims the molesting kept the boys sexually pure and cures them of homosexuality

(Link): Fatherhood Not Quite the Producer of Manly, Mature, Godly Men Some Conservative Christians Make It Out To Be (married man fantasized about murdering, eating women)

(Link): Apparently Marriage and Parenting Turns Adults Into Incestuous Child Rapists

(Link): Focus on the Family advice columnist perpetuates stereotypes about single women

(Link): Married Christian Preacher Men are Drug Addicts and Thieves

(Link): Motherhood Makes Women Selfish and Thieves

(Link): (Married) Pastor Busted in Prostitution Sting – If Married Sex So Great Why Do So Many Married Christian Men Have Affairs

(Link): Motherhood Does Not Make Women More Godly or Mature (Mother Suffocates New Born and Shoves It In Toilet)

(Link): Married Christians Defending Married Male Preacher Caught in Sexual Sin – Re TBN Paul Crouch / Jimmy Swaggart 1988 Broadcast

(Link): Married Christians Who Were Arrested for Rape, Attempted Murder, or Other Crimes – more examples

(Link): Married Church Pianist Found Guilty of Repeatedly Raping Little Girl Over Four Years

(Link): Married Christian Expert on Child Spirituality Pleads Guilty To Possessing Child Porn

(Link): Married Preacher and Father of Five (Geronimo Aguilar) In Trouble Over Multiple Affairs and Sex with Kids

(Link): Christian TV Personality ( Jimmy Evans ) Says You Cannot Meet God’s Destiny For Your Life Without A Spouse = Anti Singleness Singlehood Singles Bias Prejudice Making Idol out of Marriage

(Link): Lousy 40 Year Marriage – Husband Cheats on Wife for Decades

(Link): Married Woman Has Affair With Married Man While Her Own Husband Deals With Cancer Stricken Parents

(Link): Porn Usage Stats Among Christians 2013 (article)

Bizarre: Church attempts to support sexual purity via Pancakes and Porn meeting

Bizarre: Church attempts to support sexual purity via Pancakes and Porn meeting

Yes, I’ve made it to my 40s still a virgin and the secret was pancakes. Yes, I ate lots and lots of pancakes. Not. WTH is up with this?

(Link): Porn And Pancakes

    FREE PANCAKE BREAKFAST
    Saturday, June 8, 8:00 a.m.
    West Auditorium

    Men, you’re invited to come to this free pancake breakfast and learn how to gain victory in the area of personal purity. We are hosting Craig Gross, Pastor of XXX Church, who has a ministry that helps equip men all over our country to win the battle against pornography.

    Dads, you’re encouraged to bring your sons age 11 and up so they can be equipped to win the battle as well. Pornography is a multi-billion dollar industry worldwide, and its use has become epidemic in our culture. Learn how to safeguard your home and your life from its devastating effects.

    The free pancake breakfast begins at 8:00 a.m. and seating is limited so be sure to come early.

    Even if purity is not a personal struggle for you, come be a part of helping all of our men walk in purity and learn how you can help others in this battle!

(Link): ‘Porn & Pancakes’ fights X-rated addictions

    Apr 2007

    Every second, approximately 28,258 Internet users are viewing pornography
    • Breakfast event helps men discuss how pornography affects their lives
    • Craig Gross founded XXXChurch.com to battle against porn industry
    • A Kentucky organization uses biblical counseling to break addictions

    By Jason Rovou

    MORTON, Illinois (CNN) — At 8 o’clock on a recent Saturday morning, more than 250 men gathered at New Life Christian Church in Morton, Illinois, for a breakfast of porn and pancakes.

    The event, not as titillating as it sounds, is the brainchild of Craig Gross, founder of the online Christian ministry, XXXChurch.com. Gross concocted the idea of “Porn & Pancakes” as a way to get Christians and church officials to talk about pornography addiction.

    It’s a problem, he said, that is growing, among Christian communities.

    Over the smell of maple syrup and sausage, Gross and other guest speakers — including a former producer of pornography — talk to the men about how pornography negatively affects their lives, including relationships with their families and with God. The men who come to hear them speak want to make sure they don’t develop a problem themselves.

    “A lot of people think Christians sure don’t struggle with this,” Gross said. “The stats don’t lie: Christians are consuming pornography. And to me, it’s not a surprise.”

    … ‘Jesus Loves Porn Stars’

    Gross started his ministry to spark discussion on a topic he found to be largely ignored within religious circles. The breakfast meetings are just part of that ministry.

    His organization attends adult industry conventions, handing out bibles to pornography fans and workers that read “Jesus Loves Porn Stars.” Gross travels the country having friendly debates on college campuses with iconic porn star Ron Jeremy on the effects of pornography. And XXXChurch.com also offers free accountability software, which Gross says has been downloaded by 300,000 people. It works by sending reports to a couple of trusted persons — a friend, a wife, a pastor — about which Web sites have been visited.

    While Gross’ ministry tries to prevent Christians from developing a problem, other organizations cater to those who say they have nowhere else to turn.

(Link): Porn and pancakes, a meal educating about porn dangers

    The Salvation Army is hosting a “Porn and Pancakes” breakfast seminar after many years learning about the pornography industry’s effect on families, marriage and children.

    Captain Patrick Gesner, a Salvation Army minister, works closely with families who have been damaged by internet porn addiction.

    “I think there is not any pastor in America who has not run into the issue of pornography affecting a married couple or children,” said Captain Gresner. “The culture in America is very over sexualized, from movies, art, TV.”

    He has seen many couples lose their marriage because of the easy accessibility to porn. One of them was his friend.

    “He had a testimony that he gave about how pornography had wrecked his life,” said Gresner. “A pastor’s son, he grew up in the church all his life. So we sometimes think if you’ve grown up in the church it won’t affect him but he gave a heart wrenching testimony about how it affected him.”