It’s Not Your Imagination, Single Women: There Literally Aren’t Enough Men Out There – Re: Man Shortage – Follow Up Interview
The number of sexist men leaving comments below the page linked to below is breath taking.
Despite the fact the page is simply saying it’s a numbers game – there are more single women than men (especially in regards to college education) – there is no hatred of men going on in the article, but many of the male commentators leaving remarks below the page are complaining about how men have things so tough in society, they are complaining about feminism.
However, there is some honest, yet very fair, criticism of male behavior in the interview, as pertaining to men who realize women out-number them, so they treat women like trash – they will “play the field” and date ten women at once, or date one woman, use her, treat her like dirt, then dump her, to move on to another woman.
And that is terrible behavior. I believe the interviewer is correct to bring that point up. Pointing out that some men treat women like objects or like trash is not misandry. It’s honest. It’s merely pointing out reality.
The author says college educated women who desire marriage should consider marrying non-college educated men, rather than snubbing them, which is a rather “pro man” argument to make.
In spite of all this, a number of sexist Nimrods (men) in the comments section, who have chips on their shoulders against women, are complaining about feminism and other irrelevant issues. Several of them admit to being single. With lousy attitudes against women like theirs, it’s no wonder to me why such men are single.
- Sept 26, 2015
- Not long after he turned 30, the writer Jon Birger realized he and his wife knew a lot of women like that. The couple didn’t have a lot of single male friends left, but the many single women they knew all seemed to be buyers stuck in a seller’s market.
- …This got Birger, a former economics writer for Fortune and Money, thinking: How could a man of that age be so cavalier about casting aside such an amazing woman? And why do we all have similar stories of incredible female friends trapped for years in dating hell? Why are there so many great single women? Where are all the great single men?
- ..Using his background in economics and statistics, Birger sought out an answer. The result is his new book, Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game, a clever read with a sobering conclusion: There simply aren’t enough college-educated men to go around. For every four college-educated women in my generation, there are three college-educated men. The result? What Birger calls a “musical chairs” of the heart: As the men pair off with partners, unpartnered straight women are left with fewer and fewer options—and millions of them are eventually left with no options at all.
- I sat down for a long talk with Birger and found out why boys aren’t graduating from college, why your best friend is single, and why more women should consider moving to Silicon Valley.