The Obese, Overly Hairy ‘Erotic Eater’ Guy Should Be The Final Nail in the Coffin of Sexist Complementarian Teachings that Looks Matter Only To Men & That Women Are Oblivious To, or Don’t Care About, What Men Look Like
I am an ex-complementarian (yes, I am, read more about that (Link): here if you so choose).
I’m very aware of what complementarians teach and believe on many topics.
Many complementarians wrongly believe that women lack sexual drive, an interest in sex, and that women don’t care about what men look like.
Complementarians operate in this very strange worldview that only men are “visual.” The Bible does not teach that God created men to be visual or to have more of a sex drive than women, but Complementarians act as though it does. These views permeate their blogs, pod casts, books, sermons, and so on.
So, under complementarian teachings, women are often shamed and scolded about their physical appearance.
I’ve seldom heard complementarians tell male listeners or male readers to join a gym, work out, and get in shape so that they will be physically and visually appealing to women.
(Edit, Side Note:
Complementarians seem to assume that all single women are only interested in a man’s bank account. No, we’re not.
But there’s nothing wrong with wanting to marry a guy who has a steady job, steady pay check, who is financially responsible.
I was engaged to a man who took financial advantage of me for years. Most women I know were dating or married to men who refused to get jobs, so the women had to earn a pay check.
These women’s husbands would sit about the house all day in their underpants playing Playstation video games or watching sports.
I’ve never personally run across too many female gold diggers in my time, only one – the rest of the gold diggers I’ve met or known personally have been MEN who were leeching off their wives or girlfriends.
At any rate, complementarians wrongly assume that all women are obsessed with looking for a husband or boyfriend with a very large income or expensive sports car, so they are always telling us women to “stop judging a man by his income or what kind of car he drives, and instead, focus on how much he loves Jesus.”
Well, I hate to break it to you complementarians, but some us ladies are busy checking out if the guy has great abs and muscular arms or not – we aren’t as obsessed with his credit score, car, or savings and investments as you may assume.)
No, the sexist complementarians reserve that rhetoric for women.
(Even the (Link): Bible mentions women noticing hot looking men and getting turned on by them, but per usual, complementarians ignore or do not mention parts of the Bible that don’t fit their backwards views.)
All of that brings me to this…
The other day, I was scrolling down my Twitter page and saw this headline from The Daily Mail:
Here are some excerpts:
A 500lb OnlyFans influencer who found a lucrative niche within the fat fetish community has revealed he has to eat around 10,000 calories a day to maintain his ‘ball gut’ and keep his followers entertained.