30 Horrible Dates Whose Entitlement Is Through The Roof
I am not about to copy all 30 items, so please use the link provided to visit their page if you’d like to see all 30.
As to one of the examples on the page, where the European guy tells his lady date she might be attractive if she only lost some weight – one of my friends went through this.
This friend of mine was trying dating sites in the late 1990s or early 2000s, and one of the guys she met at a dinner date, via this dating site she was using, actually told her if she wanted to date him, she’d have to lose weight.
This seems to be a somewhat common attitude by men who meet women on dates – tell them if they’d only change “X” about themselves (usually, it’s lose weight), they’d be attractive and worthy of a relationship.
This is a huge red flag. Most women who hear this will not date such a guy further.
I myself am a visually oriented woman who am not attracted to fatties, so my preference is to date in-shape guys
Therefore, I don’t have a problem per se with people who aren’t comfortable dating chubbies or fatsos, but if that’s you, you shouldn’t accept a date with an overweight person on a site only to spring this preference on them when you meet them in-person on a date, and tell them, “You know, I’d totally enter into a relationship with you if ONLY you’d lose weight,” for god’s sake!
If you can tell from the person’s dating app photo that they’re overweight in their dating site / app photos, then don’t approach them on the site for a date in real life, moron!
(Link): 30 Horrible Dates Whose Entitlement Is Through The Roof
by Ieva Gailiūtė and Austėja Akavickaitė
Dating is complicated. After all, being selective has never been easier with the myriad of dating apps and websites that let you filter people based on their descriptions.
But let’s say you decide to go for it.
You message back and forth, awkwardly wait to be asked out, think of different conversation starters… only to discover that the person you’re interested in is way too picky to begin with.
So today, we’re diving into the not-so-pleasant incidents where people ran into dates who were ridiculously entitled. From insisting you own waterfront property to demanding a free Korean BBQ dinner, some people have unrealistically high standards.
We have combed through the internet and collected some of the best stories of people who think they inherently deserve more than anyone else…
#2 Guy Went On One Date With A Girl, Waited 3 Months Of No Contact Before Deciding To Pick Out Every Insecurity She Probably Has About Herself. Claims She Hurt His Ego, Then Proceeds To (Kind Of) Ask For A Second Date
Hello [name redacted]. I know we went on a date quite a while ago now but I’d like to explain why I haven’t messaged you.
I feel like you could have made the date much better, here’s a few reasons why. I apologize if I offend you
- If you lost some weight you would look incredible. Maybe about a stone or so
- You are very pale. I know you aren’t a fan of the sun but a bit of a fake tan won’t hurt
- You have quite big boobs so you should show off cleavage more
- I think you need to wear clothes that suit your figure and maybe update your style slightly. Just so I’m not embarrassed to be seen with you
- You need to dye your hair a normal colour and add extensions. Longer hair is much more attractive 😍
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