BLM- and Trans- Supporting Oxfam Advises White Women Rape Victims That Reporting their Rapes Is Racist & A Form of White Privilege

BLM- and Trans- Supporting Oxfam Advises White Women Rape Victims That Reporting their Rapes Is Racist & A Form of White Privilege

The horrific, obnoxious, horribly sexist and insensitive views towards white women rape victims, as reported further below, is a product of Identity Politics, Critical Social Theory (including CRT, Critical Race Theory), and supporting and advocating concepts such as “white privilege,” and “Intersectional Feminism,” and constantly demonizing white women.

Long before I had ever heard of the neo-Marxist Critical Social Theories (such as CRT), I was seeing, years ago, what seemed to be far left liberals placing people into groups and assign stations to them, so that white people were at the very bottom ladder of concern, with black people and transgender people being at the top. I did a (Link): blog post about that.

I also became alarmed at the acceptance, in American culture, of leftists bashing, attacking, and harassing white women for being white – this was something that started around the year 2020.

This started with culture dubbing any woman who refuses to be a docile doormat with the name “Karen,” and escalated last year to some black people harassing white women, following those women home, verbally antagonizing them, all the while filming these incidents on cell phones, hoping to shame these women.

One example that comes to mind of that is (Link): Karlos Dillard, a black man who harassed a white woman.

See also:
(Link): ‘White man been profiting for years:’ [Black] Seattle man who filmed himself accusing sobbing [white] woman who said she had ‘a black husband’ of calling him the n-word defends selling T-shirts from it

(Link): Gay Black man behind viral “Karen” [white lady] video has a history of filming women, accusing them of racism)

Leftists and other assorted Trump haters blamed and sneered at white women for the 2016 Trump win, something I blogged about (Link): previously.

Now, we’re at a stage where Leftists, who adhere to all this “intersectional feminism,” woke, social warrior justice, critical theories shit, are advising white women who are raped by any “person of color” not to report their rapist to the police, because to do so would be racist and a mark of white privilege (never mind that Europe also already has a (Link): huge problem of Muslim migrant men raping white Europeans girls; they are called “grooming gangs”)

(Link): Oxfam LGBT paper blames “privileged white women” for male sexual violence

An Oxfam staff training document compiled by the charity’s LGBT network has claimed mainstream feminism supports “the root causes of sexual violence”

The ‘Learning About Trans Rights and Inclusion’ document alleges that “privileged white women” support the causes of male sexual violence by wanting “bad men” fired or imprisoned, legitimising criminal punishment which the authors imply leads to sexual violence.

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‘IT’S LIKE LEAVING THE CULT’ – Former employee suing Dave Ramsey speaks out for the first time, by J. Finley

‘IT’S LIKE LEAVING THE CULT’ – Former employee suing Dave Ramsey speaks out for the first time, by J. Finley

This is an update to my previous post about this situation.

(Link): ‘IT’S LIKE LEAVING THE CULT’ – Former employee suing Dave Ramsey speaks out for the first time

Excerpts:

In her first interview since filing a federal lawsuit against the company of financial guru Dave Ramsey, Caitlin O’Conner described the company as a cult and said employees fear to make missteps in their personal lives for fear it will be reported to their work superiors.

O’Connor filed the federal lawsuit after she said she was fired for having premarital sex and becoming pregnant.

…That story featured audio of Ramsey speaking to staff, mocking employees who engage in premarital sex.

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China: The Men Who Are Single And the Women Who Don’t Want Kids

China: The Men Who Are Single And the Women Who Don’t Want Kids

(Link): China: The Men Who Are Single And the Women Who Don’t Want Kids

A once-in-a-decade population census has shown that births in China have fallen to their lowest level since the 1960s – leading to calls for an end to birth control policies. But some in China say these policies aren’t the only thing that’s stopping them.

Despite being hassled by her mum about it, Beijing resident Lili* is not planning to have children any time soon.

The 31-year-old, who has been married for two years, wants to “live my life” without the “constant worries” of raising a child.

“I have very few peers who have children, and if they do, they’re obsessed about getting the best nanny or enrolling the kids in the best schools. It sounds exhausting.”

Lili spoke to the BBC on condition of anonymity, noting that her mother would be devastated if she knew how her daughter felt.

But this difference of opinion between the generations reflects the changing attitudes of many young urban Chinese toward childbirth.

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Divorce In China Plummet 70% Following New Government ‘Cool-Off’ Law

Divorce In China Plummet 70% Following New Government ‘Cool-Off’ Law

 The introduction (this is the section before I get to the links about divorce in China):
Not a big fan of China myself, but – I bet you anything that other American conservatives (I’m a conservative, but one who doesn’t idolize marriage) – will be jealous of this policy in China!

I bet anything that members of “Focus On the Family,” “Institute for Family Studies,” or Al Mohler, or Bradford Wilcox, and other such marriage-idolizing and Christian patriarchal groups or persons, will, should they comment on this news story, speak of it in sad, longing, envious terms, as though they wish the American government would and could force married adults to have “cooling off” periods before divorcing.

(And such groups almost always blame women for divorce (they especially love to go after “feminism.”
The sexist pigs who run around on the “Manosphere” and such complain that women “initiate divorces more often.” Hmm, it could be that many American men make for lousy husbands, not that women just like to, you know, divorce for the hell of it.)

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Twitter Suspends User for Saying A Man Cannot Get Pregnant (May 2021)

Twitter Suspends User for Saying A Man Cannot Get Pregnant (May 2021)

Before I get to the Links about this news story, I’d like to reiterate, that I believe this is why I was suspended from Twitter (about seven months ago now).

Side note: when I say ‘suspend,’ this term seems to confuse some people. Yes, my SoloLoner account is still visible, but it is FROZEN. Last time I attempted to log in, a message popped up saying I could not retweet or tweet new material from that account – and I was taken to a blank page, if I recall correctly.

An accompanying e-mail informed me that to re-gain full access, I’d quite possibly have to delete a tweet that Twitter felt “broke their rules.” I did not re-log back in to try to figure out exactly WHICH tweet it was, but I am betting on the one where I mentioned that a biological man cannot be and is not a woman.

Side note 2: as I’ve explained before, I don’t much care if those born biological men want to live as women. If you’re an adult, and that is how you choose to live your life, I don’t much care. I don’t hate Trans people.

What I object to are things like biological women’s safety being put to risk over this phenomenon of some in the Trans community pushing their agenda (see more links about that here),
bullying people into using certain sets of pronouns,
and companies or culture trying to censor or cancel anyone who points out biological facts of science, such as, biological men are not physically, biologically capable of giving birth to a baby.

And for perfectly reasonable views like those, people will get harassed online by some Trans and their “allies” or be booted off some wack-a-doodle, far left views pushing platforms, such as Twitter. 

Having said that, here are the links:

(Link): Twitter temporarily suspends Spanish politician for saying ‘men cannot get pregnant’

(Link): Twitter Suspends Spanish Politician For Saying ‘A Man Cannot Get Pregnant’

(Link):  Spanish politician temporarily suspended by Twitter after saying ‘a man cannot get pregnant’

Excerpt:

“The hateful tweet (which I [Francisco José Contreras, deputy to Spain’s far-right Vox Party] was forced to delete) was one that said: ′′A man cannot get pregnant. A man has no womb or eggs”,” Contreras wrote in response to the move. “You can see this is already fascist biology. Next time I’ll try 2 + 2 = 4.”

(Link): Twitter suspends user for saying a man cannot get pregnant

Excerpts:

…So what was it that the Spanish politician wrote that was so hateful? Did he use the n-word or defend antisemitism? Nope. He commented on a recent news item announcing the birth of a child to a transgender parent, saying that a man can’t become pregnant because they lack a uterus or eggs.

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I Changed My Name When I Got Married, and I’ve Felt Weird About It Ever Since by Mirel Zaman

I Changed My Name When I Got Married, and I’ve Felt Weird About It Ever Since by Mirel Zaman

(Link): I Changed My Name When I Got Married, and I’ve Felt Weird About It Ever Since by Mirel Zaman

Excerpts:

Two years ago, I got married and took my husband’s last name, adopting my original surname as my middle name and dropping my birth-given middle name altogether. My husband seemed mostly apathetic about me doing this.

…As I filled out the paperwork required to get a new Social Security card, I felt my first pangs of misgivings.

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The Mark Gungor and Sheila Gregoire Dust Up, vis a vis SSB Blog – I’ve blogged about Gungor for Years

The Mark Gungor and Sheila Gregoire Dust Up, vis a vis SSB Blog – I’ve blogged about Gungor for Years

Back when I was still on Twitter, I had to un-Follow Gregorie, because she sometimes “likes” anti-Republican type comments, which I got tired of seeing after months – her anti-conservative etc tweets that she “liked” would appear in my feed. I got tired of seeing them (I’m a conservative). 

I’ve blogged about Gungor before, going back years, on this blog. Here are some of my posts about the guy:

(Link): Kind of Bad Analogy by Christian Marriage Guru Mark Gungor

(Link): The Right One – Do Unmarried Christians Only Need Jesus in Common to Marry ?

(Link): Mark Gungor on Sexuality and Singles on Jan. 2013 TBN Guest Appearance

Gungor, as I’ve noted before on older posts at this blog (going back years) is a Christian marital advice person. He used to host marriage advice television shows on Christian network TBN.

And most of what I saw of his work had Gungor trading in secular, sexist stereotypes about women, and also promoting gendered stereotypes about men.

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This, *This,* of All things, is the Litmus Test in the Biden Administration? Are Liberals, Democrats Serious About This? Regarding: Marijuana Vs. Sexism

This, *This,* of All things, is the Litmus Test in the Biden Administration? Are Liberals, Democrats Serious About This? Regarding: Marijuana Vs. Sexism

I don’t know how fair it is to hold Joe Biden accountable for much of anything these days, as the guy apparently is in early stages dementia and doesn’t even know what year it is.

Maybe Kamala Harris is the actual POTUS (President) in practice, if not in name right now, and Biden is the feeble figure head only, who knows?

Having said that, Biden and his Democratic Party administration are FINE and dandy with saying they oppose sexism,
YET,
they also defend sexist pro-Transgender policies (such as allowing biological boys who “identify as girls”) into girls’ sports, thus depriving actual girls of scholarship opportunities and positions on sports teams.

Biden and most (not all, but most) Democrats, leftists, and progressives are FINE with that sort of unfairness against girls and women; allowing men and boys to succeed at the expense of actual females;  I guess I can dub that “Trans Sexism.”

But, smoking marijuana, (a habit I am rather neutral on, and no, I’ve never smoked it myself) is considered a fire-worthy offense by the Biden administration?

Biden administration: Sexism fine, smoking pot bad.

Seems to me that in some ways, smoking marijuana is less harmful than allowing biological males into biological female spaces.
But such is the wacko, nutty, inconsistent, stupid practices and beliefs of most Democrats, Leftists, Progressives and Liberals these days.

(I can’t say most of this on Twitter – they will suspend you for saying any of this over there – Twitter doesn’t like the truth getting out on their platform.)

(Link): Biden White House asks staffers to resign over past marijuana use: report

by Z. Folk, March 2021

A number of White House staffers were asked to resign or demoted for past marijuana use — regardless of whether those employees had been in one of the 14 states where the drug is legal, according to a report.

The Biden administration had required workers to disclose past marijuana use on a background check form, but told some new hires that it would “overlook” those who answered yes, the (Link): Daily Beast reported.
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If you seriously think that Democrats, liberals, Never Trump Republicans, leftists, or progressives really and truly care about fighting sexism or care for actual (biological) girls and women, I have a bridge in Brooklyn I’d like to sell you.

Open your eyes: liberals, progressives, Democrats, Never Trumpers do NOT care about women, girls, or in fighting sexism.

Look at what they DO, not at what they SAY.

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Harvard Calls Women ‘Birthing People’ Because ‘Not All Who Give Birth’ Are Women

Harvard Calls Women ‘Birthing People’ Because ‘Not All Who Give Birth’ Are Women

(Link): Harvard Calls Women ‘Birthing People’ Because ‘Not All Who Give Birth’ Are Women

by Benjamin Zeisloft
December 26, 2020

A Harvard Medical School department Twitter account referred to women using the term “birthing people” in a tweet.

To advertise a panel about “maternal justice,” the Harvard Med Postgraduate and Continuing Education account tweeted that “globally, ethnic minority pregnant and birthing people suffer worse outcomes and experiences during and after pregnancy and childbirth.”

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Hillsong Church Rife with ‘Inappropriate’ Sex, Members Claimed

Hillsong Church Rife with ‘Inappropriate’ Sex, Members Claimed

As someone who is not totally opposed to the idea of churches setting up social functions so that single adults may meet other single people (in the quest to get married), I’ve never promoted, nor do I defend, any church that actually devolves into a seedy sex racket, where members are going about willy nilly sleeping with each other, and I sure do not approve of sexual harassment.

But I don’t want to see Christians or churches out there pointing to garbage like this news story at Hillsong (Link): to excuse NOT LIFTING A FINGER  to help single adults get married – at least the ones who’d like and appreciate the help.

But what is reported here is not acceptable – and it makes you really question that “be equally yoked” rule so many Christians cram down the throats of singles: if so many of the (usually MARRIED) Christian men at these churches are sexual predators, why do some Christians tell single Christian women that the best, safest place to “husband hunt” is at their local church?

(Link): Hillsong church was a ‘breeding ground’ for inappropriate sex and leaders ‘sent nudes to female volunteers while sleeping around’, claim whistleblowers after disgraced leader’s multiple affairs were exposed

(Link): Hillsong Church Rife with ‘Inappropriate’ Sex, Members Claimed

by Mara Siegler and O. Coleman
December 17, 2020

Hillsong staffers used the church like a seedy dating service, “sleeping around” with volunteers and asking them to send nude pictures — according to a group of volunteers who allegedly complained about the situation. Continue reading “Hillsong Church Rife with ‘Inappropriate’ Sex, Members Claimed”

Many Liberals Support Cultural Appropriation When It Suits Them: The Liberal Support of Sexist ‘Woman Face’

Many Liberals Support Cultural Appropriation When It Suits Them: The Liberal Support of Sexist ‘Woman Face’

I’ve seen many liberals in the last few years complain about something they call “cultural appropriation.”

They get perturbed any time someone from one culture (or group) wears, eats, cooks, or uses anything from another culture (or group).

One of the dumber examples I’ve seen of this was an instance from a couple of years back where a Latina lady wrote an  editorial where (Link): she slammed black pop singer Rihanna for using “chola” eye make-up and eyebrows – eyebrows which are plucked very thin.

Now, I found this to be a very strange complaint, because, first of all, who cares?, if Rihanna wants to wear thin eyebrows, that’s her choice – but, I do recall that American film actresses back in the 1920s to 1940s used to wear really thin eyebrows, such as Jean Harlow and Marlene Dietrich.

Even more bizarre, as I read along, the Latina who wrote the editorial admitted that Latinas were not among the first to pluck their eyebrows really thin. She acknowledged that models and actresses of the 1930s were known to pluck their eyebrows beyond belief. Yet, she went on to criticize Rihanna over this in the year 2017 or 2018.

I’ve seen liberal “people of color” ladies who are into ranting about Cultural Appropriation getting steamed at non-black ladies, especially white ones, for wearing corn rows or spit curls or baby curls.

(Side note here: early versions of Superman had him in a spit curl, and it apparently was a fashion among all sorts of people back in the 1920s and 30s, among white and black ladies. But I digress.)

Years ago, a white college or high school aged girl was criticized all up and down social media for wearing a dress with a mandarin collar. She was going to wear this dress to her prom, if I remember correctly, and she posted a photo of herself in said dress to her Instagram account or Facebook.

What makes this even more bewildering and funny is that when a journalist reached out and asked Asians living in Asian nations if they found this offensive, they said NO, they found it FLATTERING that an American of any skin color would like their traditional fashion styles enough to wear them!

As I learned as a kid, one of the unique and wonderful things about the United States is that our nation was known as a “melting pot,” where legal immigrants would bring with them the music, fashions, foods, make- up, dances, and hair styles, and other customs of their nations of origin – and other Americans were usually glad to adopt some of these styles or practices themselves.

Of course, it is (and should be) taboo for white Americans to wear “black face,” since that is a practice that started with white performers using black (or dark) make-up, to mock black people during their stage shows.

Further, we do have a history in this nation of black people once having been bought and sold and objects in slavery.

But as to the rest of it – such as, white people wearing spit curls, black women wearing thin eye brows, and all the rest of it – most criticisms of “cultural appropriation” have grown beyond ridiculous.

I’ve noticed that the Liberals who are obsessed with finding Cultural Appropriation behind every rock and tree, are not consistent about it.

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Nearly 1 in 10 Women Find Sex Painful, Study Finds

Nearly 1 in 10 Women Find Sex Painful, Study Finds

But Christian complementarians don’t care!

How do I know? Because in years past, any time I’ve seen male pastors or male Christians discuss sexuality issues on Christian shows on television, they’ve denoted that if a woman has “hang ups” about sex (because she was previously raped or sexually abused at some point in her life, even in childhood) – that is preventing her husband from having sex whenever he wants – that she should go see a therapist and get over it already.

These male pastors and male Christians convey that the married woman who has difficulty with sex in marriage because she is still dealing with past sexual trauma (i.e. rape or sexual abuse) needs to just shove it aside so she can have sex with her husband, because her husband is really horny and wants sex (again I must ask: have men, even Christian ones, never heard of masturbation?)

The emphasis with men, even Christian ones, is not the feelings and needs of the woman, but how the selfish ass hat men can get any and all the sex they want from their wives, their wives needs and concerns be dammed.

So I have no reason to believe that the sexist d-bags of the Christian world such as but not limited to Mark Driscoll, John Piper, John MacArthur, Pat Robertson, et al, would care if “one in ten women experiences pain during intercourse”

(Link): Nearly 1 in 10 Women Find Sex Painful, Study Finds

Excerpts:

by D. Steingold

Being intimate is an important part of keeping a healthy relationship, but for some women, there’s nothing enjoyable about it. According to a recent British study, nearly one in 10 women find sex to be painful.

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