Despite Marrying His Son’s Ex-Wife, and Allegedly Grooming and Dating Her While She Was Still Married to His Son, a Pastor Remains in His Position

Despite Marrying His Son’s Ex-Wife, and Allegedly Grooming and Dating Her While She Was Still Married to His Son, a Pastor Remains in His Position

I so tire of seeing other conservatives keep spewing out excessive marriage praise. Marriage does not, contrary to what those conservatives say, make people more godly, responsible, ethical or loving, nor does it “save” society.

I myself am a conservative, I am not against marriage, but I am opposed to the unrealistic views of marriage (and the nuclear family) that so many other conservatives have.

Also, let this be a lesson that finding a godly spouse in church is a joke – some of the biggest dirt bags and wolves attend church or work as preachers – and “equally yoked” is a joke and a waste of time if you’re a single Christian woman.

Stories like the one below demonstrate that a person doesn’t have to be holy, clean themselves up, be perfect, or be good to earn or merit a spouse from God (that was fairly common advice in Christian dating articles and books I read years ago).

(Link):  MN Pastor Who Married Son’s Ex-Wife Remains in Ministry, But Son’s TikToks Going Viral

Excerpts:

May 9, 2023
By Jessica Eturralde

Despite marrying his son’s ex-wife, and allegedly grooming and dating her while she was still married to his son, a Minnesota pastor remains in his position. The pastor’s son, however, is now going public with the 14-year-old, shocking story on TikTok—and his videos are going viral [his video on TikTok can be viewed here].

… Through a string of TikTok videos spanning months, Drew explained how their family split apart after his father married Drew’s ex-wife, following Drew’s mother’s death.

…Since then, Drew has published 21 videos, unveiling the stunning story.

According to Minnesota Family Law Attorney Johanna Clyborne, Bill Matthews’ marriage to Ana Lorena may not be legal.

Porn-Addicted Dentist Arrested for Murdering His Wife With Poison-Laced Protein Shakes ‘To Start A New Life With Orthodontist Lover’ Had Multiple Affairs, and Flew in Mistress to Be By His Side While Mother-Of-Six Was Hospitalized

Porn-Addicted Dentist Arrested for Murdering His Wife With Poison-Laced Protein Shakes ‘To Start A New Life With Orthodontist Lover’ Had Multiple Affairs, and Flew in Mistress to Be By His Side While Mother-Of-Six Was Hospitalized

I feel sorry not just for the wife, but especially for her six children (the oldest is 20 years of age). They will have to grow up without their mom.

Anyway. Marriage and parenthood and the Nuclear Family didn’t save this family, didn’t make this husband a good, ethical, or godly man. I mention this because my fellow conservatives, who are excessively “pro Nuclear Family, natalism and marriage” to an absurd degree often like to make outlandish claims about marriage and parenthood.

This porn-addicted, cheating scum wad also was a member of his local police department’s anti-bullying program. Because of course he was!

Looks like he’s in legal hot water now, not having fun with his mistress.

I see these types of news stories frequently, and I’m always amazed at how people’s selfishness blinds them – if you pull this sort of thing, you will be caught. You’re not going to get to sail off in to the sunset with your mistress, sipping pina coladas.

I also can’t help but wonder, was it worth it? I don’t think so.

You got to boink some other trashy woman, but to stay with her, you killed your wife, the cops figured it out, and I can only assume your ass is going to sit in a prison for around 20 years over this. It was not worth it.

I cannot get over how short-sighted and stupid these people are – these people who murder their spouse to either get money or run off with a lover. You’re going to get caught and pay the price.

(Link):  Porn-Addicted Dentist Arrested for Murdering His Wife With Poison-Laced Protein Shakes ‘To Start A New Life With Orthodontist Lover’ Had Multiple Affairs, and Flew in Mistress to Be By His Side While Mother-Of-Six Was Hospitalized

by Harriet Alexander
March 20, 2023

A Colorado dentist charged with murdering his wife with poison-laced protein shakes sent her text messages in hospital enquiring about her condition and professing his love – even as she told him: ‘That drink you gave me tastes weird.’

James Craig, 45, was arrested in Aurora, Colorado on Sunday.

His wife Angela, the mother of his six children, died in hospital the day before, having first reported pain and nausea after drinking a protein shake he prepared for her on March 6.

Craig’s mistress – an orthodontist in Texas – sent him worried messages, asking about his wife’s condition. She even flew to Colorado to visit Craig from March 8-10, while his wife was in hospital.

Craig’s charging documents state that their relationship ‘had always been tumultuous’: she told a confidant several times over their 16-year relationship that she was leaving him, but he always convinced her to stay.

He ‘had multiple affairs with several women,’ the documents state, and told his wife he had been addicted to pornography since he was a teenager.

Woman Allegedly Kills Her Husband in an Argument Streamed on Facebook

Woman Allegedly Kills Her Husband in an Argument Streamed on Facebook

(Link): Woman kills husband in argument streamed on Facebook

Excerpts:

March 26, 2023

A Lowndes County woman is accused of killing her husband Saturday morning during an argument that was being streamed on Facebook Live.

Kadejah Michelle Brown, 28, is charged with murder, Sheriff Eddie Hawkins said.

Deputies responded to a domestic violence call at 500 Greentree Drive about 7:40 a.m., Hawkins said. When they arrived, they found a male victim dead of a single gunshot wound.

(Link): Woman Charged With Murder After She Goes Live To Record Her Husband Leaving Her Then She Shoots Him

According to The Dispatch, a woman A Lowndes County woman is accused of killing her husband Saturday morning during an argument that was being streamed on Facebook Live.

(Link):  Mississippi woman unalive her husband on Facebook live after finding out he’s gay

Excerpts:

Days before Kadejah allegedly shot and killed her husband Jeremy, she put him on blast for being a cheater and gay.

In one social media post, Kadejah wrote, “I have a bisexual husband, Jeremy Roc Brown.”

(Link): Woman Allegedly Kills Her Husband in an Argument Streamed on Facebook

“This was a tragic and senseless murder, and our thoughts and prayers go out to the family of the victim,” Lowdnes County Sheriff Eddie Hawkins said in an official statement

By Alexis Jones
Published on March 26, 2023

A Georgia woman allegedly killed her husband during an argument streamed on Facebook Live.

According to the Lowdnes County Sheriff’s Office (LCSO) statement, 28-year-old Kadejah Michelle Brown was arrested without incident by deputies on Saturday after they responded to a domestic violence call.

Massachusetts Man Unknowingly Hires Undercover Federal Agent to Kill Wife

Massachusetts Man Unknowingly Hires Undercover Federal Agent to Kill Wife

For the trillionth time on my blog: I am not a progressive, I do not hate The Nuclear Family or Marriage, but I do totally abhor how so many Christians and secular conservatives continue to maintain this FALSE promise or illusion that “the family” is necessary for society, to save it, or that marriage or parenthood will make a person more godly.

Can you imagine being a single woman who wanted to be married one day, and you supposed that the guy you would get married to would be a real Prince Charming who only had your best interest at heart, only to find out later he tried to hire a hitman to murder you?

I don’t think most women, when they daydream about getting married one day, fantasize about their husband- to- be getting them bumped off by a John Wick type of guy.

Did being married make this guy more loving, ethical, godly, or responsible? No, it sure did not. I think the article says that this guy is also a parent – he and the wife he was trying to kill had a few children together.

Maybe getting married makes people LESS godly, mature, responsible, loving, or ethical. 🤔

Do you think the guy in this news story reached a state of perfection and then God allowed him a wife? I’d say no.

If there is a God, I don’t think if God follows a directive of, “well, I cannot permit someone to marry unless they clean up their act and became a wonderful person,” as so many Christian dating advice books, articles, and blogs argue, then God would not have sent a woman into this man’s life for him to marry.

Obviously, since killer clowns like this guy are able to marry, it shows that one doesn’t have to meet some kind of criteria of godliness and great morals before God will allow that person to marry, or that sure is not true for every person.

(Link): Massachusetts man unknowingly hires undercover federal agent to kill wife

by Isabel Keane
March 19, 2023

A Massachusetts man who attempted to hire a contract killer to murder his wife had unknowingly asked an undercover federal agent to carry out the hit, authorities say.

Massimo Marenghi, 56, now faces up to a decade behind bars after pleading guilty Thursday to the murder-for-hire, the US Attorney’s Office for the District of Massachusetts said in a release.

The Malden man “complained about his wife seeking a restraining order against him” during a January 2021 meeting with an undercover FBI agent posing as a contract killer, officials said.

Marenghi later met with the undercover agent and asked him to help “eliminate” his problem as the pair “discussed a price of $10,000,” the feds said.

Married Pastor Allegedly Drugged, Raped Married Parishioner (who was not his wife) He Promised ‘Spiritual Revival’

Married Pastor Allegedly Drugged, Raped Married Parishioner (who was not his wife) He Promised ‘Spiritual Revival’

Did being married make this pastor more loving, ethical, sexually pure or godly? Nope.

Did being married protect the woman in this news story, make her any safer? Nope.

We have here a married woman who was allegedly raped by a married man who works as a church preacher.

So, my fellow conservatives out there, both religious and secular, can stop trying to argue against anti-marriage rhetoric by the left by making such bogus claims (that marriage “improves” culture or makes people more responsible, mature, loving) – which they do. I was brought up in evangelical culture, in the Southern Baptist Church, and such propaganda is common, even now.

Conservatives mistakenly think that the way to “own the libs” and defeat anti-Nuclear Family, anti-natalism rhetoric from the left is to double down on marriage, parenthood, etc, and shame or fear monger any single, celibate adults into getting married, and to try to convince women that motherhood – not career or education – is in their best interest. It is a wrong and ridiculous strategy.

(Link): Kissimmee pastor accused of drugging, raping member of his church during ‘spiritual revival’: Deputies

Excerpts:

by FOX 35 News Staff
March 3, 2023

KISSIMMEE, Fla. – A Kissimmee pastor was arrested after he allegedly sexually battered a member of his church twice at his home, Osceola County deputies said.

Eddy Noelsaint, 51, was arrested on two charges of sexual battery after a woman told deputies he raped her twice at his home and reportedly drugged her on one occasion in 2022.

I Nursed My Cheating Husband Back to Health from Severe Brain Trauma – Then He Cheated Again by A. Grace

I Nursed My Cheating Husband Back to Health from Severe Brain Trauma – Then He Cheated Again by A. Grace

I have other, similar stories like this one below on this blog about other people.

I have stories about how a woman donated a kidney to her boyfriend, and then he broke up with her. I have blog posts about spouses who cheated on their spouse who were injured and in the hospital or who had dementia, etc.

It’s appalling how so many people out there have no gratitude, or will cheat on their spouse, even when their spouse is in a very vulnerable position.

There really is no point in being married if the person you’re married to would be fine and feel so comfortable repaying your kindness and fidelity with this mistreatment.

The woman who made this TikTok video says after she divorces her cheating husband that she will never re-marry.

Christians and secular conservatives should stop “over selling” marriage – marriage did not instill character or good morals into this man, he still cheated on his wife. This marriage did not heal or fix society in any way.

Let this also go to show that if God allows dirt bag cheaters like this man to marry, then obviously, (and contrary to what many Christian dating advice books and articles have said), God is not keeping spouses from Christians who are not perfect, or who have not achieved some standard or another.

God permits scum buckets like the guy in the article below to get married all the time, so there’s no reason God wouldn’t allow more or less loving, normal, “okay” people to marry, either.

(Link): I nursed my cheating husband back to health from severe brain trauma — then he cheated again 

by Asia Grace
Jan 18, 2023

She learned the hard way that her hubby is a cheater — and a phoney!

As her husband lay unconscious in a hospital bed, clinging to life after narrowly surviving a terrible car crash in January 2022, mom of two Kate Sifuentes sat weeping at his bedside, feeling overcome with guilt.

She feared he’d attempted to respond to her text messages while at the wheel, causing him to crash.

So she checked his phone — and uncovered a slew of texts, dating app profiles and social media direct messages proving that he’d been cheating on her with many other women.

Then, after spending months nursing the guy back to health — helping him relearn how to walk, talk, eat and use his phone — she found out that he’d been using his reacquired motor skills to cheat on her again.

Utah Man Kills Wife, Five Kids in Murder-Suicide After Wife Files for Divorce – Nuclear Families Don’t Make People Happier or Fix Society; Marriage Doesn’t Make People More Loving and Ethical

Utah Man Kills Wife, Five Kids in Murder-Suicide After Wife Files for Divorce – Nuclear Families Don’t Make People Happier or Fix Society; Marriage Doesn’t Make People More Loving and Ethical

(Link): Utah man kills wife, five kids in murder-suicide after wife files for divorce

Jan 5, 2023
By Snejana Farberov

A 42-year-old Utah man gunned down seven family members, including his five children between ages 4 and 17, then turned the gun on himself — two weeks after his wife had filed for divorce, authorities said.

Officials in Enoch City on Thursday identified the suspected gunman in the murder-suicide as 42-year-old Michael Haight, and the victims as his wife, Tausha Haight, 40, their three daughters, ages 17, 12 and 7, and two sons, ages 7 and 4.

Also killed was Tausha Haight’s mother, 78-year-old Gail Earl, according to a press release from the Enoch City government. Each of the victims appeared to have gunshot wounds.

Court records showed wife Tausha had filed for divorce from Michael on Dec. 21, but it was not immediately known why she had sought to end their marriage.

Church Pastor, Wife Sentenced After Using Homeless for Forced Labor, Stealing Benefits – Christian Marriage Doesn’t Improve Society or Make People More Ethical

Church Pastor, Wife Sentenced After Using Homeless for Forced Labor, Stealing Benefits – Christian Marriage Doesn’t Improve Society or Make People More Ethical

It’s more and more difficult for me to want to stick with the Christian faith at all when I see so few people who claim to be Christians actually consistently live out a Christian lifestyle, or who commit such obviously anti-biblical actions.

Also let this serve as yet another example of how “hyper pro marriage, hyper pro Nuclear Family” views put out by Christians simply is not true: Christian marriage didn’t make this couple more godly, mature, loving, or ethical, nor did this marriage improve society.

Further, Gender Complementarian teaching (which includes “male headship” teaching) is clearly false, since so many self professing Christian men are unethical dirt balls.

(Link): Pastor Who Used Homeless as Forced Labor, Three Others Plead Guilty to Benefits Fraud 

(Link): California pastor gets jail time for using homeless in benefits fraud scheme: ‘Appalling abuse of power’

Victor Gonzalez and wife were part of church labor trafficking scheme, according to prosecutors

by Jon Brown

A California pastor and his wife were sentenced to prison time earlier this month after pleading guilty to a charge related to what federal prosecutors described as a church labor trafficking scheme that victimized the homeless.

Victor Gonzalez, the head pastor of California-based Imperial Valley Ministries (IVM), was sentenced to six months in prison and another six months of house confinement after pleading guilty in a San Diego federal court to conspiracy to commit benefits fraud, according to the San Diego Union-Tribune.

His wife, Susan Gonzalez, who pleaded guilty to the same charge, received a time-served sentence.

Wife Helped Convict Pedophile Husband by Identifying His Penis

Wife Helped Convict Pedophile Husband by Identifying His Penis

Did being married make this man more loving, mature, responsible, or godly? Why no, it did not – he was still a pedophile.

Really, my fellow conservatives, especially the religious ones, keep incorrectly teaching that The Nuclear Family, marriage, and parenthood “improves” people or society. It does no such thing.

(And no, I am not “anti” Nuclear Family or anti-parenthood or anti marriage.)

And shout out to Daily Mail for mentioning in their Tweet about this story that the guy is MARRIED.

The article below says this married couple first met on a dating app – so beware ladies. Pedophiles use dating apps, and some of them seek wives in churches, so caution there.

This also goes to show that if God is permitting perverts like this man to get married, God is sure not expecting you to achieve some level of perfection or righteousness in your own life before he will grant you a spouse.

(Link): Wife helped convict paedophile husband by identifying his PENIS

Dec 9, 2022
by Brittany Chain

A woman helped to convict her pervert husband by positively identifying his penis in pictures he sent to paedophile hunters he believed were ‘young girls’.

Hayley Dunn was shocked when vigilantes knocked on her door and accused her partner James Kemp of sex crimes.

But when they produced pictures of his manhood, she instantly knew it was him – and her world ‘completely fell apart’.

Hayley, now 50, said: ‘I was physically sick, I cried, I fell to the floor – I was so in shock and broken.’

Georgia Divorce Lawyer is Shot Dead ‘By Estranged Husband of Female Client After He Won Her $170,000 Settlement’ Before His Office is Torched with His Remains Inside

Georgia Divorce Lawyer is Shot Dead ‘By Estranged Husband of Female Client After He Won Her $170,000 Settlement’ Before His Office is Torched with His Remains Inside

Hello, Al Mohler, Philip Derrida, Brad Wilcox and other worshippers of Marriage and The Nuclear Family: marriage did not make this man more godly, mature, or ethical, and his marriage did not improve society. He ended up murdering a divorce lawyer.

(Link):  Georgia man charged with killing ex-wife’s divorce lawyer, then torching office 

Dec 11, 2022

A disgruntled Georgia man is charged with murder for allegedly gunning down his ex-wife’s divorce attorney — and then setting the victim’s law office on fire, according to reports.

(Link): Georgia divorce lawyer is shot dead ‘by estranged husband of female client after he won her $170,000 settlement’ before his office is torched with his remains inside

by Melissa Koenig
December 11, 2022

A Georgia divorce attorney was shot dead by the estranged husband of one of his clients before the disgruntled man torched his office with his remains still inside, authorities allege.

Lawrenceville police say Doug Lewis was alone inside his offices on Stone Mountain Street Wednesday evening when Allen Tayeh walked in and shot him dead.

Tayeh then allegedly poured gasoline all over Lewis’s office, and started a fire before he was spotted walking away from the scene of the crime suffering from burns of his own.

Investigators now say Tayeh owed Lewis more than $28,000 in legal fees, after the well-respected attorney won his ex-wife a $170,000 settlement and a judge ordered he pay for his exes’ attorney’s fees as well.

Married Couple Says They Host Christmas Dinner in the Nude And Their Family Guests Are OK With It

Married Couple Says They Host Christmas Dinner in the Nude And Their Family Guests Are OK With It

This is gross, nasty, weird, and inappropriate in so many ways.

Also: marriage doesn’t make people more mature, ethical, godly, or responsible (this is another example).

There are photos on the pages below – even though they are “tastefully” posed or blurred out so that you don’t see any genitals, the whole thing will never- the- less make you want to wash your eyeballs out with bleach:

(Link):  We’re nudists and we spend Christmas Day completely naked while our guests wear clothes – it’s not awkward but we do have to crank the heating up

A husband and wife duo have admitted to spending Christmas day completely in the nude, while their guests remain fully clothed.

Helen Berriman and her husband Simon revealed that they celebrate Christmas totally naked.

The couple from Bromley, decorate the tree and even cook their turkey while stark naked.

(Link): We host Christmas dinner in the nude — our clothed family doesn’t mind

By Andrew Court
December 23, 2022

They’re living their naked truth.

A British couple is speaking out about their plans to spend the festive season in the buff, claiming they won’t even put on clothes when their relatives call around.

Helen Berriman is set to host her mother, 75, and her daughter, 15, for lunch on Christmas Day where she will sit naked alongside her husband, Simon.

US Couple Face Death Penalty in Uganda as They Are Hit with New Child Trafficking Charge

US Couple Face Death Penalty in Uganda as They Are Hit with New Child Trafficking Charge

If these accusations are true… always remember and never forget: contrary to what American conservatives go on about, marriage and parenthood do NOT make people more godly, mature, and ethical, nor do Nuclear Families rescue societies.

Based on what I’m seeing here, though, I don’t think this couple did anything to support receiving the death penalty. Maybe some fines or a bit of jail time, but the death penalty is extreme for these accusations.

(Link): Married U.S. aid workers face execution in Uganda for allegedly torturing their 10-year-old foster son

(Link): US couple face the death penalty in Uganda as they are hit with new child trafficking charge: Aid workers ‘tortured their HIV+ foster son, 10, by keeping him naked and feeding him only cold food’

Dec 21, 2022
by Neirin Gray

A US couple is facing the death penalty in Uganda after they were hit with an aggravated child trafficking charge – on top of a child torture charge they are already battling.

Nicholas Spencer and his wife Mackenzie Leigh Mathias Spencer, both 32, have been in custody in Uganda since December 9 after they were charged with the aggravated torture of a 10-year-old child.

The boy, who is HIV positive, was living under their care in a suburb of Kampala.

Police said that the couple would force the boy to spend the day barefoot and naked, would often make him squat in awkward positions – with his head facing the floor or his hands spread widely – and that he was only served cold meals from a fridge.