The Chump Lady Blog – covers some of the same ground this blog does
I’ve so far only skimmed about two posts at the “Chump Lady” blog, but from what I did see, it sort of reminds me of mine.
As I’ve not read the entire blog, I cannot say if I agree with all the views expressed at the blog.
The woman who owns the blog says her father was a Methodist minister, but like my blog as of late, you will find the occasional “F” word on her blog and other profanities, so be aware of that if you are a delicate flower Christian who blushes easily at naughty words – but don’t let that deter you from her blog.
The blog mostly doles out advice to married people who have been cheated on by their spouses.
Even if you are a never married Christian, I think you can learn from some of this blog, especially if you are dating.
As far as the “Jesus Cheaters” (Christians who have extra marital affairs) page below, you’ll note the number of Christian husbands (and one or two wives mentioned) who cheated on their spouse, which betrays the Christian propaganda that “married sex is so mind blowing, it will keep you faithful to your spouse.”
Please note also comments by one woman whose husband cheated on her, shows no remorse, continues to play the part of pious Christian, and she says,
A true Christian would feel consumed with guilt, would be working on repentance, and would be trying to make amends. Hypocrisy is his middle name….
Yeah, see, that is one of my points: I am alarmed to see the number of Christians arguing against fidelity, virginity, and chastity, because, they argue, to keep harping on those topics makes the self-professing Christian fornicators and adulterers feel guilty, ashamed, and bad about themselves.
Well, good! If you sleep around outside of marriage (I am including pre-marital sex in this), and you do not feel any shame or remorse, there is something wrong with you. I wrote a little about this topic previously, here:
Here’s the home page:
Posts of particular interest at that blog:
If you are in a relationship and being cheated on, I recommend this page:
(Link): When Unicorns Meet Ashley Madison… [site for married people to hook up to have affairs]
Note (sadly), especially in the comments on this page, the sheer, staggering number of Christians who say they were cheated on by their Christian spouse – some also say after they dumped their cheating spouse their churches shunned them:
Now I know folks are going to bring up the failings of cheaters on the left, odious narcissists as well, undoubtably. But there is something unique about the Jesus cheaters, who not only use religion and “family values” as short-hand for “I’m an honorable person, elect me!”, but then use their religiosity to beat up on anyone would disagree with them. What’s more narcissistic than assuming you’re the word of God and he speaks directly to you?
Still more disgusting is the way these men (sorry, I’ve yet to see a woman cheater publicly outed this way) assume that their wives are sticking with them. Give us time while “we” work through this! Suddenly it’s a “we” problem. Of course it is. Chumpy wives, pastor or political, are still of use to their narcissists.
A reader left a comment on that page which reads,
by Lisah April 9, 2014 at 5:16 am
I am new here. My stbx [soon to be ex] is a classic “Jesus cheater”.
After supporting him through 7 years of education to become a minister he dumped me 6 weeks into his new career.
He left me homeless and terribly emotionally crippled in a strange city with no rights to the house we lived in at the time.
Oh yes, his “justafriend” is a Minister too! And her family was torn apart for their tru luv as well. Did the church Do anything??? No…
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