Why Do Churches Treat Singleness Like a Problem? via Relevant Magazine
I first saw this link Tweeted by Defend The Sheep’s Twitter.
- My blog stalker, (Link): John Morgan will now probably blog about this on his blog (without crediting myself and/or Defend the Sheep), or, he’ll probably leave a comment on this blog post:
(Link): Why Do Churches Treat Singleness Like a Problem? via Relevant Magazine, by R. Karman
Excerpts:
- Please don’t misunderstand me, I do wish to be un-single one day. I do want to have children, and I am not opposed to dating. I am not rejecting all potential relationships and I love the concept of marriage, I really do.
- …But, marriage is not God’s only gift.
- And it is not the central focus of my life’s trajectory, either. Though, to my disappointment, it feels like until finding “the one” becomes my top priority, I may never fully fit into the mold many within the Church long for me to embody.
- At the age of 29, I was turned away by couples-only small groups, told by the attendants—some of my closest friends—that we were no longer in the same stage of life, then placed in a group with recent college graduates.
- ….I’ve been told that I will not truly know what it means to love until I am married with children.
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