AITA For Making My Boyfriend Call Me Grandma in Bed?
There’s this advice section on Reddit called AITA (Am I The Asshole), where people write in about disputes they’re having with co-workers, friends, family, or whomever, and they want to know if they’re wrong or if the person they’re having the dispute with is wrong.
The sometimes get questions about dating and marriage.
This woman is NOT the asshole. Her idiot boyfriend is. Well, he’s not just an asshole, but he’s a weirdo sicko.
If that link doesn’t work, there is a screen cap of it in a tweet embedded below, and here’s another link or two with copies of the inquiry:
The Bedroom Equaliser
””I’m just going to get right to it — My (25f) boyfriend (28m) likes to be called “daddy” in bed while we’re being intimate.
I’ve obliged this request but it’s starting to creep me out and I’ve decided I don’t want to do it anymore.
He is not happy with this and insists it has nothing to do with the connotation of the word, he just simply enjoys hearing me say it.
“Since he wasn’t budging on the issue, I told him I’d like for him to call me “grandma” in bed as a compromise.
He didn’t like this option and said it was giving him visuals he would prefer not to have — like ok, join the fucking club.
Anyway, the last time he tried to initiate intimacy with me, I started to refer to myself as “grandma” in the 3rd person (do you like when grandma does that?, etc) and he FLEW off the handle.
Said I ruined the mood, made him feel gross and I was being ridiculous.
I think I proved my point but he thinks I’m being an asshole so, AITA?”
Read the responses (Link): here.