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Marriage Does Not Make People More Loving Mature Godly Ethical Caring or Responsible (One Stop Thread)

The following are links to many (but not all) posts on this blog about news reports about sins and crimes committed by MARRIED people.

Not only do these news reports dispell the Christian myth that married people are more godly, mature, responsible, or sexually pure than singles, but…

These links also demonstrate that married sex is not as great Christians say it is, which they say to entice kids into staying virgins until marriage.

If married sex were as wonderful as Christians claim, we would not see all these reports of married Christian men (or women) using porn, having affairs, or hiring prostitutes.

Some of these married people featured in the news reports below might also be PARENTS and CHRISTIAN.

—— LIST OF CRIMES / SINS COMMITTED BY MARRIED PEOPLE ——-

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MARRIED WOMEN, sins and crimes of (ie, specifically about married women)

List of Married MEN who have been caught in sin or crime is listed farther below

(Link): New Study Released: Cheaters: More American Married Women Admit to Adultery (links)

Contains links to information about why married women commit adultery, survey info, etc:

(Link): Married Women Engage in Sexual Sin – and most men in denial particularly Christian conservatives

Man writes for advice, his wife had affairs:

(Link): More Schadenfreude – Glad Not To Be Married Series

(Link): Glad I’m Not Married – Woman Writes For Advice: ‘Help! My Husband Caught Me Cheating and Now Wants an Open Marriage.’

(Link): Wife of Kinda Famous TV Preacher Guy Committed Multiple Affairs – He tells congregation at church service

(Link): Married Woman Has Affair With Married Man While Her Own Husband Deals With Cancer Stricken Parents

(Link): Cheating Married Christian Women and Lessons I Take Away – and Being a Virgin Does Not Guarantee God will Send You a Spouse

(Link): Beware of HIV / AIDS Infected Christian Male Preachers On Dating Sites – he cheated with a Christian Married Woman

(Link): The Chaste Ways of Female Politicians – but some have extra marital affairs (Article)

(Link): Woman Stabs Husband with Ceramic Squirrel For Not Buying Beer (another time I’m glad I’ve never married)

(Link): Married Woman Carries on Extra Marital Affair for Fifteen Years – (Married Couples – Not Singles – More Prone to Sexual Sin)

(Link): Registered nurse, 65, accused of attempted murder ‘for injecting FECES into husband’s IV after his heart surgery’

(Link): Wife exposes husband, mistress — at Walmart (Married People Are Not More Godly or Mature)

(Link): Married Guy Convinced Monogamy For the Birds Ever Since His Wife Cheated on Him For Years – Sad Letter

(Link): Wife Stabs Husband, Drives Car Into Church Because Husband Worshipped NASCAR

(Link): Long Time Married Lady Wants to Know If She Can Have Affair Because Husband Has Not Been Spending Much Time With Her – Another example of why Christians need to teach that sexual purity is for all not just young singles

(Link): Married Mother charged after allegedly faking cancer and raising thousands in donations

(Link): Widow Lived With Husband’s Corpse For 9 Months, Says He Wanted To Be Eaten By Birds

(Link): Boy, 3, dies after being beaten, ‘systematically tortured’ while hung from feet by his mother and her married boyfriend

(Link): Lady in Japan Reportedly Killed Six Husbands (maybe ten victims in total). So much for marriage making people more godly, loving…

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MARRIED MEN, sins and crimes of (ie, specifically about married men)

(Link): Author of Marital Self-Help Books Murders Wife

(Link): Preacher Found Guilty of Murdering His Second Wife, Probably Killed The First One, He Had Affair With Vulnerable, Grieving Woman at His Church

(Link): Former Minister Raped Ten Year Old Girl For Three Years, Wife Helped Him to Cover it Up – Marriage Does Not Make People More Mature and Godly

(Link): Bishop Dies of Apparent Heart Attack After Wife Allegedly Pushed Him to Confess Infidelity to Church

(Link): Arizona Preacher Resigns After Being Caught in Extra Marital Affairs

(Link): A Grandfather and Married Men (some are also Parents) Among 600+ Adult Men Arrested for Pedophilia in UK Major Child Porn Crackdown – parenthood is not a guarantee a person will be more ethical

(Link): Police Say Wife Tried to Frame Husband for Child Porn

The following post includes link to story about a mega church pastor who was caught in adultery:

(Link): Married People Aren’t More Virtuous Than Christian Singles

General discussion about sexual sin among married couples, also contains links to anecdotes from wives about their husband’s pornography addiction/usage:

(Link): The ol’ Christian myth that married couples are impervious to sexual sin but singles have lots of sexual sin

(Link): Married Christians Who Were Arrested for Rape, Attempted Murder, or Other Crimes – more examples

(Link): Married Christian Preacher Men are Drug Addicts and Thieves (links to news stories about married preachers who stole money for drugs)

(Link): Married Christian Rock Singer in Legal Trouble for Hiring Hit Man To Kill His Wife – he also had drug addiction

(Link): Adorable Old Couple Are Actually Both Murderers Who Killed Their Ex-Spouses

(Link): Four women testify they had affairs with (married) man who ‘drugged wife with ecstasy so she would take part in threesomes before he strangled her’

(Link): Married Church Pianist Found Guilty of Repeatedly Raping Little Girl Over Four Years

Famous Christian TV Personality, Pat Robertson, Had Pre Marital Sex:

(Link): Advocate of Family Values Doesn’t Uphold Family Values | Stop Asking Pat Robertson for Advice America!

(Link): Glad to Be Single – Husband Married to Woman Now Says He’s Homosexual And Wants Out

(Link): Married Couple Charged With Making Dog Porn (wife had sex with dogs while husband filmed it)

(Link): Pervy (Married?) “Healing Hands” Preacher Jailed For Raping Congregants

(Link): Married Preacher and Father of Five (Geronimo Aguilar) In Trouble Over Multiple Affairs and Sex with Kids

(Link): Married Christian Couples and Sexual Sin, More Examples – and Women and Porn

(Link): Married Christian Preacher and Mistress Try to Kill Wife – Married Christians not more stable, mature, or godly than Singles

(Link): Married Pervy 50+ Year Old Baptist Pastor (Jack Schaap) Diddles 16 Year Old Kid (he was later sentenced to jail for this)

(Link): Wife of Preacher Shoots, Kills Him, Recounts Years of Physical and Sexual Abuse – So Much for the Equally Yoked Teaching and the Notion that Christian married sex is Mind Blowing

(Link): Lists of More Married Preachers Arrested for Being Rapists or Child Molesters

(Link): Lousy Marriages (and Lousy Boyfriends) – Guy Marries Lesbian, Other Guy Fakes Kidnapping To Get Away from Wife etc

(Link): Married Christian Preacher and Mistress Try to Kill Wife – Married Christians not more stable, mature, or godly than Singles

(Link): Married Couple Almost Starve Adopted 8 Year Old To Death – you don’t have to achieve perfection or sinlessness before God will send you a spouse

Contains stories from wives of husbands who had affairs, and the “men and women supposedly cannot be just friends” discussion:

(Link): More Crummy Marriages Examples and How Gender Role Stereotypes Can Ruin Marriages

(Link): Pro Ball Player Convicted for Kid Diddling Three Kids Claims to be an Outstanding Christian (and he’s married with a kid of his own) – again, why should Christian single gals limit themselves to only marrying Christian men? The Whole “Being Yoked Equally” thing is irrelevant and unduly limiting for singles

(Link): Married Youth Pastor Father of Four Caught Raping and Molesting Several Little Boys claims the molesting kept the boys sexually pure and cures them of homosexuality

(Link): Apparently Marriage and Parenting Turns Adults Into Child Rapists

(Link): (Married) Pastor Busted in Prostitution Sting – If Married Sex So Great Why Do So Many Married Christian Men Have Affairs

(Link): Married Father Rapes Teen Babysitter, then kills her so she can’t testify

(Link): Married Christian Expert on Child Spirituality Pleads Guilty To Possessing Child Porn

(Link): Mother Sells Teen Daughters’ Virginity to Old Men (article) – Being A Parent Does Not Make A Person More Godly Loving or Mature

(Link): Stereotypes Against Singles Refuted Series: Married IFB Preacher Arrested for Being Serial Rapist

(Link): Pastor Creflo Dollar Arrested for Assaulting his Teen Daughter (He is married and a father)

(Link): Utah doctor convicted of drugging, drowning wife in bathtub (he is also a father, his kid found the body)

(Link): Fathers and Married Men Caught In Pedo Sting by Authorities – Being Married or A Parent Does Not Make Person More Godly or Mature

Some of the stories in this post are of MARRIED men:

(Link): Preachers Arrested For, or Accused of, Promoting Prostitution, Rape, Spreading HIV, Child Molesting etc – And Christian Single Women Should Only Consider Marrying So Called Christian Men Why?

(Link): Woman Married to Abusive Jackhole for 40 Years Asks Advice Lady if She Should Dump the Loser

Talks about married Christian men’s porn addiction, clergy raping women, among other issues:

(Link): Married Christian Couples and Sexual Sin, More Examples – and Women and Porn

(Link): Lousy 40 Year Marriage – Husband Cheats on Wife for Decades

(Link): New ‘Christian Swingers’ Dating Site Offers Faithful Couples Chance to ‘Hookup’

(Link): Married Stepfather Arrested for Incest with Stepdaughter

(Link): Leader of Hyper Family Focused, Fertility Cult (Vision Forum Ministries) Steps Down After Admitting to Having an “Emotional Affair” (He was married with children of his own, admitted later that affair was also sexual in nature)

(Link): Married Baptist Preacher with Daughter Charged With Murdering Three People in Pawn Shop – Tell Me Again Why Single Christian Women Should Only Consider Marrying Christian Guys? And How Parenting and Marriage Makes a Person More Godly and Mature?

(Link): Was Benny Hinn’s Brother Restored to Ministry Too Soon After Affair? (article)

(Link): Focus on the Family Married Members Practice Infidelity or Homosexuality and Get Divorced and Remarry – links to exposes

(Link): Lousy Marriages (and Lousy Boyfriends) – Guy Marries Lesbian, Other Guy Fakes Kidnapping To Get Away from Wife etc

(Link): Self Professing Christian Married Guy of 21 Years and Father of Two Admits to Being a Pervy Unfaithful Rat Bastard Who Uses Cheating Sites to Hook Up With Greedy Vapid 20 Somethings

The list includes married men:

(Link): London firefighters: Don’t put your penis in a toaster

(Link): Famous Married Political Guy In Trouble For Sex Stuff Again

(Link): Married Man Having Affair With Married Woman

Includes married people:

(Link): Porn Usage Stats Among Christians 2013 (article)

(Link): Lousy 40 Year Marriage – Husband Cheats on Wife for Decades

(Link): And Will He Be Giving Sermons on Sexual Purity? Re: Church Restores Pastor Removed for Adultery

(Link): Lists of More Married Preachers Arrested for Being Rapists or Child Molesters

(Link): Christian TV Network Daystar televangelist (Married Christian Guy) Marcus Lamb admits to past affair

(Link): Pastor charged in wife’s murder was headed to Europe to marry boyfriend, prosecutor says – Single Xtian Ladies: Kick that Be Equally Yoked Teaching to the Curb! Also: Marriage and Parenthood do not make people more godly or mature or loving or ethical

(Link): New York Man Stabs His Own Daughters and Wife to Death

(Link): Think men on online dating sites are dodgy? Meet the sex-mad women! (Brit article) (One man mentions that his marriage was sexless for years, another man admits he had affair on his wife)

(Link): Devout Christian studies student allegedly kills fiancée, makes it look like suicide

(Link): Married Father Murders Teen-Aged Baby Sitter – Marriage and Parenting Does Not Make People More Loving, Godly, Mature, or Responsible

(Link): Another Example of How Marriage Does Not Make People More Mature or Loving Than Being Single – Husband Puts Indecent Photos of His Wife All Over Town

(Link): Married Man Forced His Wife To Have Sex With Strangers and He Killed A Teen – So Much For the Christian Teaching That God Doesn’t Send Spouses to Imperfect, Sinful People

(Link): Married Preacher (Davis – he is also the father of a teen aged son) Found Guilty of Exposing Women to HIV

(Link): Bishop Dies of Apparent Heart Attack After Wife Allegedly Pushed Him to Confess Infidelity to Church

(Link): Married Baptist Church Preacher Repeatedly Demands Sex from Woman at Hotel and Blames The Devil For His Actions & Is Now Facing Sexual Battery Charges

(Link): Wife Kills Hit Man Husband Sent To Murder Her

(Link): Married Preacher, Father of Eight Kids, Used Nanny as Sex Object – update on Phillips story

(Link): Married NC Preacher sexually abused a mentally-challenged person who was in his care

(Link): Chiropractor Suspected of Killing Fifth Wife Charged With Capital Murder

(Link): Ohio man convinced foster daughter, 17, to kill wife so they could be together, collect insurance cash – Parenthood and marriage do not make people more mature or godly

(Link): Church Hires Registered Sex Offender as Pastor; Man Now Faces Charges of Alleged Rape, Sodomy of 14-Y-O Boy at Church [this pervert is a married man with a son of his own, AND he worked as a preacher]

(Link): Married Texas Father Kills Several of His Own Family Including His Own Children

(Link): Married Father Who Worked as Police Officer Raped Wife After Drugging Her and Murdered Her and Their Children

(Link): Married Father Hires Prostitute Who Intentionally Gave Him Heroin Overdose that Killed Him

(Link): Baptist missionary and husband murders wife on Valentine’s Day so he could be with his mistress – Tell me again why Christian women should only date or marry Christians when garbage like this keeps happening?

(Link): Necrophiliac [and he is a MARRIED man] Charged With Banging Three Dead Women, Admits to Doing 100+ Corpses – Are We Allowed to Necrophiliac-Shame?

(Link): Married Father and Baptist Preacher J D Hall – Another Example of How Marriage and Parenthood Does Not Make a Person More Godly or Mature

(Link): Married Couple Pays Surrogate to Have Baby, They Keep The Healthy Daughter But Refuse the Down Syndrome One – Also: Cops: the Dad is a Convicted Pedo

(Link): Christian Swingers: Body-building Christian Married Couple Advocates and Practices Wife Swapping – and the wife calls this lifestyle “pure”

(Link):  “I found that the abuse began or escalated when the men became Christians … When rigid traditional family values are combined with rigid traditional religious beliefs, there is always abuse.” (by B H Brennen)

(Link): Christian Swingers: Body-building Christian (Married) Couple Advocates and Practices Wife Swapping – and the wife calls this lifestyle “pure”

(Link): Husband Lying to Wife About Video Game Console Purchase Another Example of How Being Married Does Not Make A Person More Mature or Ethical

(Link): Married Father, who worked as church youth volunteer, charged with owning child pornography

(Link): Perverted Married Couple Hired 15 YO Girl To Have Sex With Both Of Them On Their Wedding Day

(Link): Pervert Who Regularly Has Sex With Horses is Married to Human Woman

(Link): Man Who Worked as Preacher Allegedly Drowned His Pregnant Wife To Be With His Mistress

(Link): Married Guy Tells Advice Columnist His Wife Cheated on Him Numerous Times With Other MARRIED Men

(Link): Man convicted of beating his wife to death with a frying pan when she found out he was $600,000 in debt

(Link): Man Kills Stepdaughter Films Self Having Sex With Dead Body – but Christians say Parenthood Makes People More Godly and Mature

(Link): Husband Tells Advice Columnist Wife Hit Menopause, Has No Libido, So He’s Been Having Affair, is that OK?

(Link):  Drunken Married Couple Has Threesome With Drunk Friend (Ask Amy column)

(Link): Father Has Sex With His Own Children, Forces Them to Have Sex with Dog, His Wife and Ex Wife Participate

(Link): Drunken Married Couple Has Threesome With Drunk Friend (Ask Amy column)

(Link): Ex-Church Usher Found Guilty of Hiring Hitman to Kill His Wife So He Can Pursue Kinky Sexual Lifestyle With His Mistress  (the guy in this story is married AND is a parent)

(Link): Married Preacher With Two Kids of His Own Accused of 37 Sex Acts With Two Kids – According to News Story, He Also Sexually Harassed Female Co-Worker

(Link): Raped, tortured and forced to live in a wardrobe by her Family for FIVE YEARS

(Link): Married Preacher With Two Kids of His Own Accused of 37 Sex Acts With Two Kids – According to News Story, He Also Sexually Harassed Female Co-Worker

(Link): Teen Girl Willingly Loses Her Virginity to Her Biological Father Knowing He Is Her Biological Father ~ They Plan to Marry and Have Kids

(Link):  Man beats wife on wedding night after failing to get her dress off

(Link): If Your Christian Husband Is A Porn Addict, Has Affairs, Impregnates Another Woman, You Divorce, You Don’t Forgive and Stay – Pukey 700 Club Segment

(Link):  Prominent Married Christian Advocate for Persecuted Christians Resigns After Sex Assault Conviction

(Link):  Married Woman Rationalizes Her Extra-Martial Affairs – Selfishness, Thy Name is Married People

(Link):   Selfishness: Thy Name Is Married People / Married People Think Their Spouse Having Alzheimer’s Gives Them A Pass to Spouse Shop or to Divorce or Have Affairs / Christians Over-Sell Marriage but Under-Sell Adult Singleness

(Link): Married Virgin Asexual Woman Allows Her Husband To Have Sex with Other Women – Why Christians Need to Emphasize Sexual Self Control For Everyone, Not Just Teen Girls

(Link): Married Father of Five Preacher Looking for Homosexual Sex on Grindr

(Link): Married Pastor Stole $60,000 From Church, Police Say — May Have Spent Some On Gay Sex Sites  – Cops Caught Him Having Sex in Van

(Link):  Woman Who Helped Inmates Make Prison Break Cheated on Her Husbands Her First Husband Claims

(Link):  Preacher Tullian Tchividjian Resigns after Admitting ‘Inappropiate Relationship’ (ie, Affair on His Wife, She Cheated Too)

(Link): Married Man in Sexless Marriage To A Woman Has Affairs With Another Married Man

(Link): Married Guy Feels Trapped, Depressed in Marriage to Fat, Lazy, Ingrate Wife / 2015 Study: Married People Fat, Single People Skinny

(Link): Mass Murderer Houser, Equally Yoked Teaching, Sexism Condoned and Advocated by Some Christians (Houser was married and a father and apparently a Christian)

(Link):  Ashley Madison Site Hack Update / Family Values Activist Josh Duggar Had a Paid Ashley Madison Account / Sexual Abstinence Does Not Necessarily or Always Cause Repression or Sexual Sin

(Link):  Another Christian Pro-Nuclear Family Marriage Idolator Married Father Caught By Ashley Madison Hack

(Link):  Adultery in Christian Marriage – One Woman’s Story, via SSB Blog 

(Link):  Christian Married Father and Christian University Muckity Muck, James Epting, Caught Having Affair

(Link):  Pastor Outed on Ashley Madison Cheating Site Commits Suicide (he was married and had children)

(Link): Man Stomped Wife’s Head in Until She Died, Also Ran Her Over With Car

(Link): Preacher Stole Five Figures From Church To Pay off Young Mistress

(Link): Married Father Beats His Own 7 Year Old Son To Death, Feeds Dead Body to Pigs 

(Link):  Cops Searching for Married Church Preacher Who Raped Teen Girl and Impregnated Her

(Link):  Married Church Volunteer Had ‘Secret Sex Den Attic Where He Molested Neighbor’s Two Sons’ (this guy is also a father)

(Link):  Baptist Preacher Hires His Mistress To Set His Wife On Fire

(Link):  Married Preacher Raped Two Girls in His Church and Also Had Child Sexual Abuse (Porn) Collection- Some of it obtained by placing hidden cameras in church bathroom

(Link): Married Man Paid Prostitute with Charity Money and Tipped Her With a Pet Monkey

(Link):  Christian Charity Head [who is a Married Man] Admits Using Donations for Sex Habit

(Link):  Calvary Chapel Pastor in Florida Pleads Guilty to Murdering his Mistress

(Link):  Christian Man Kills Wife Leaving Church After Sunday Worship; Couple Active Members for 20 Years – So Much for Being Equally Yoked, and Marriage Making Couples More Mature and Godly

(Link): Christian Married Father (Promoted by His Christian Employer as being a Family Values Guy) Sexually Assaulted Boys at Christian Camp, Some During Bible Study, Say News Reports – And He Led Sexual Purity Classes for Kids

(Link): Texas Pastor and Pastor’s Wife Sexually Abused Their Kids

(Link):  Married Man Used Pacifier to Muffle Screams of His Young Male Rape Victims

(Link):  ‘Sex Starved Wife’ Cuts off Her Husband’s PENIS After He Refused to Make Love to Her for Ten Years

(Link): Married Father of Six, Preacher Matthew Tague, Arrested for Forcibly Molesting a Minor

(Link): Pastor, Wife Face Prison After Pleading Guilty to Stealing Thousands From Summer Food Program

(Link):  ‘She Was A Sex Slave’: Wife of Preacher Reveals Horrific Torture At Hands Of Her Husband by L. Little

(Link): Twisted Dad Allegedly Killed Son Who Found His ‘Disgusting’ Fetish Photos

(Link):  Church-Goer and Her Pastor Lover Killed Her Husband So They Could Be Together

(Link):   Woman Admitted She Helped Her Husband Rape Two Children

(Link):   Married School Teacher Sentenced to Prison For Watching Live Stream of Six Year Old Boy Being Raped

(Link): Married, Republican Pro-Life Politician Allegedly Asked His Pregnant Mistress to Get an Abortion

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