Mom and Dad ‘Fantasized About Raping Their Own Unborn Baby’ by Debbie White
Ah, tell me again, Southern Baptist talking head Al Mohler and other conservative Christians and secular conservatives how parenthood supposedly makes people more godly, responsible, giving, self-less, and ethical, especially in light of headlines such as this one.
(Link): Mom and Dad ‘Fantasized About Raping Their Own Unborn Baby’
July 8, 2019
A MUM and dad “fantasised about committing incest with their unborn baby” after sexually assaulting their two-year-old daughter, horrific court papers reveal.
Gerrad Coddington, 25, and Christina Nelson-Coddington, 29, allegedly handcuffed, beat and raped the toddler, says an affidavit lodged in Oklahoma, US.
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Model ‘Murdered Two Young Daughters Because They Got In The Way of Her Lifestyle Offering Sex to Men For Cash’
I happen to be a conservative, but I remain frustrated at how other conservatives – not just Christians, but also secular conservatives – keep promoting marriage and the “nuclear family.” These groups think – or some insist – that marriage and parenthood are necessary to make adults into giving, ethical, and responsible people. This is false.
I have many examples on my blog of married people or parents who rob, rape, and murder other people (sometimes their own biological children!). Here is another sad example.
If being married or becoming a parent were necessary to make a person sinless, godly, more loving or responsible, the Bible would surely say so some where – but it does not. The Bible actually says in 1 Cor. 7 it is better to remain single!
(Link): Model ‘Murdered Two Young Daughters Because They Got In The Way of Her Lifestyle Offering Sex to Men For Cash’
July 2, 2019
By TERRI-ANN WILLIAMS FOR MAILONLINE
A mother ‘murdered her two young daughters within days of each other because they got in the way of her lifestyle’.
Model Louise Porton had been ‘offering sex to men for cash’ and a court heard how her children had become a ‘burden’ and had started to ‘get in the way’ of her lifestyle.
The 23-year-old is accused of killing three-year-old Lexi Draper and 16-month old Scarlett Vaughan, by obstructing their airways.
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Married Texas Southern Baptist Pastor Who Wanted Abortion Seekers Jailed for Getting Abortions Arrested for Sexually Abusing His Underaged Family Member
Does marriage or parenthood make people more godly, mature, ethical, caring or responsible, as so many Christians and conservative think tanks espouse? Nope. It sure does not.
Marriage and being a parent didn’t do anything to make this pastor less of a slime ball.
(Link): Southern Baptist pastor in Harris County arrested for abuse of child
by Nicole Hensley
June 15, 2019
A former pastor of a Southern Baptist church in north Harris County faces charges of molesting a teenage relative, sometimes multiple times a day, over the course of two years, court records show.
Stephen Bratton, who resigned from Grace Family Baptist Church in Cypress Station last month, was charged Friday with continuous sexual abuse of a child, Senior Deputy Thomas Gilliland said Saturday.
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Why You Shouldn’t Love Your Kids More Than Your Partner By B. Luscombe
(Link): Why You Shouldn’t Love Your Kids More Than Your Partner
…Before you call child services, let me be clear: Of course you have to love your kids. Of course you have to put their needs first. But doing so is also a no-brainer. Children, with their urgent and often tricky-to-ascertain needs, easily attract devotion.
Spouses don’t need to be fed and dressed or have their tears dried and are nowhere near as cute. Loving your kids is like going to school–you don’t really have a choice. Loving your spouse is like going to college–it’s up to you to show up and participate.
[So why invest more time and energy into the adult?]
…One reason, actually, is for the kids.
Research strongly suggests that children whose parents love each other are much happier and more secure than those raised in a loveless environment.
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Abused Baby Boy Is Fitted With Artificial Anus ‘After His Parents Inflicted Horrific Injuries on the Six-Week-Old Child For Sexual Gratification’, German Prosecutors Claim
As you can see, there is nothing about Parenthood that makes a person more godly, loving or ethical, as so many conservative Christians I’ve seen have claimed in their blog posts, sermons, books and so on:
(Link): Abused Baby Boy Is Fitted With Artificial Anus ‘After His Parents Inflicted Horrific Injuries on the Six-Week-Old Child For Sexual Gratification’, German Prosecutors Claim
A couple in Germany have been charged with child sex abuse after their baby son suffered injuries so severe surgeons had to fit him with an artificial anus.
The parents, named as Ismail S., 23, and Nina R., 26, allegedly abused the tot at their home in the city of Ludwigshafen in the western German state of Rhineland-Palatinate.
Nina R., a saleswoman, is accused of causing the severe injuries to the child when he was just six weeks old.
Chief prosecutor Hubert Stroeber said: ‘She wanted to get sexual satisfaction.’
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University Officials Warning Students About Woman Who’s Been Roaming Campus Grounds in Search of a Date For Her Son by N. Niemietz
(Link): Towson University police looking to identify woman seen on campus, searching for date for her son – Fox News
(Link): Towson University police warn of a woman on the loose, looking for a date for her son– Baltimore Sun
Towson University police have asked students and staff to be on the lookout for a woman in her 50s wearing a multicolored scarf. She’s looking for a date for her son.
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Baby Died of Malnutrition, Dehydration, and an E. Coli Infection Caused by Being Left In a Maggot-Infested Diaper for Two Weeks
(Link): Baby Died of Malnutrition, Dehydration, and an E. Coli Infection Caused by Being Left In a Maggot-Infested Diaper for Two Weeks
Cheyanne Harris, 21, left the courthouse in Iowa, US, crying after harrowing pictures of four-month-old Sterling Koehn were shown to a jury
A young [mom] accused of leaving her baby son to die in a maggot-infested nappy [diaper] sobbed in court yesterday.
Jurors were shown photos of tragic four-month-old Sterling Koehn at his [mom] Cheyanne Harris’ trial.
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Bride Kicks Couple out of her Kid-Free Wedding for Bringing Their Children but People are Defending Her
(Links): Bride Kicks Couple out of her Kid-Free Wedding for Bringing Their Children but People are Defending Her
A bride on Reddit detailed how she asked a couple at her wedding to leave after they brought their infant and toddler
She had explicitly stated on the wedding invitation that the event was kid-free
Other kids at the ceremony, like the flower girl, were picked up before the reception
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British Couple Who Named Their Infant After Hitler Was Arrested For Terror Group Membership
To all the secular and Christian conservatives out there promoting this false idea (and yes, some of them do in fact do this), that being married and being a parent is necessary to make people more godly, mature, and responsible, I present to you yet another example demonstrating that being a parent does not do didley squat didley to improve a person’s character.
(Link): British Couple Who Named Their Infant After Hitler Was Arrested For Terror Group Membership
by Josh Halliday, Dec 2018
A neo-Nazi couple who named their baby son after Adolf Hitler and made their home a “shrine to extreme racism” have been jailed for membership of a terrorist group.
Adam Thomas was pictured cradling his son while wearing the hooded robes of the Ku Klux Klan. His partner, Claudia Patatas, believed “all Jews must be put to death”, a trial at Birmingham crown court heard.
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First Baby Born Using Uterus Transplanted From Deceased Donor
(Link): First Baby Born Using Uterus Transplanted From Deceased Donor
by Maria Cheng
LONDON (AP) – Brazilian doctors are reporting the world’s first baby born to a woman with a uterus transplanted from a deceased donor.
Eleven previous births have used a transplanted womb but from a living donor, usually a relative or friend.
Experts said using uteruses from women who have died could make more transplants possible. Ten previous attempts using deceased donors in the Czech Republic, Turkey and the U.S. have failed.
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Couple Put Kids In Car Trunk for 900 Mile Drive So Dogs Could Sit on Back Seat
And 99% of conservative Christians go on and on about how being a parent is necessary to make a person a true adult, and to make someone more loving, giving, and godly. What a bunch of crap.
Here’s another example of how parenthood did not make people more loving, giving or godly:
(Link): Couple Put Kids In Car Trunk for 900 Mile Drive So Dogs Could Sit on Back Seat
by Jimmy McCloskey
Friday 7 Dec 2018 3:42 pm
A couple admitted putting two young children in a car trunk for a 900 mile drive so their German shepherds could ride on the back seat.
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The “Parenting Happiness Gap” Is Real, New Research Confirms
(Link): The “Parenting Happiness Gap” Is Real, New Research Confirms
By Jenny Anderson & Solana Pyne
June 16, 2016
It’s an almost immutable fact: Regardless of what country you live in, and what stage of life you might be at, having kids makes you significantly less happy compared to people who don’t have kids. It’s called the parenting happiness gap.
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One Third of British Men Say They Sometimes Hide In Their Bathrooms To Escape Family, Survey Claims
Why do conservative Christians blather on and on about the supposed need for parenthood – because supposedly, parenthood makes people less selish, and turns them into all-Giving, loving, responsible, mature Savior Figures, when some of these parents admit to hiding from their own families in the bathroom?
And why are men hiding? Women still do the majority of the house-work and child-care as most husbands sit around on their asses drinking beer and watching TV.
I don’t see how the Nuclear Family is making culture any better, especially when the male figure of the family is hiding from said family in the bathroom.
(Link):One third of British men say they sometimes hide in their bathrooms to escape family, survey claims
By R. Knight
A third of British men say they sometimes hide in their bathrooms “to get some peace and quiet”, according to a new poll.
The survey of 1,000 men found that on average they spend a total of seven hours a year in the bathroom for this reason.
Respondents said the main reasons they hid in the toilet was to avoid chores and look at their phones undisturbed.
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(Link): The Overlooked Emotions of Sperm Donation
by Ashley Fetters
July 9, 2018
“My hope is that people think about how this is more than a transaction,” says one family therapist.
Sperm donation offers a tidy solution to an aggravating problem: When a person or a couple wants a baby and needs a different ingredient than what they’ve currently got to make one, a man with viable sperm swoops in to help.
…As simple a transaction as sperm donation can seem to be, though, some find it to be stressful or isolating—and because assisted reproductive technology is a relatively new, rapidly developing field, the social and emotional challenges that can arise between the participants in a sperm donation are, for many, uncharted.
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(Link): Want More Babies? You Need Less Patriarchy – on New York Times
Same editorial here:
(Link): Want More Babies? You Need Less Patriarchy – Oregonian
Last week, the National Center for Health Statistics reported that America’s birthrate reached a historic low in 2017, falling to 60.2 births per 1,000 women of childbearing age.
For a population in the developed world to replace itself, the average woman needs to have around 2.1 children. In the United States, where fertility has been below replacement for about a decade, the average woman now has 1.77.
Several commentators have described the plunge as a mystery, particularly since we’re in a period of economic growth. Some on the right have, absurdly, blamed the shrinking birthrate on abortion, even though abortion rates are also as low as they’ve been since Roe v. Wade was decided.
More thoughtful conservatives, like National Review’s David French, speculated that the baby bust could be a sign of the same sort of sweeping despair that has been linked to America’s decreasing life expectancy.
I have another theory. Perhaps the United States is becoming more like the rest of the industrialized world, where declining birthrates are correlated with a lack of support for working mothers.
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Restaurant Banning “Loud” Kids Has Parents Outraged
Why are so many parents outraged over stuff like this? Nobody wants to hear your screaming baby or brat when they’re out at a movie or a restaurant.
When I was a kid, my parents did this thing called PARENTING, where if myself or my siblings began crying or throwing a temper tantrum, they’d carry us out of the establishment. My parents did not subject other adults to my or my siblings’ annoying kid behavior – why should today’s kids be any different?
Sorry, Christians, but parenthood does NOT make people more compassionate, giving, moral, or loving – as a matter of fact, parenthood seems to make some people even MORE selfish and demanding.
(Link): Restaurant Banning “Loud” Kids Has Parents Outraged
May 14, 2018
By Alexandra Deabler, Fox News
A restaurant in California is making waves for its firm stance on children: Those crying or making loud noises are not allowed in the dining room.
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The Entitled, Insensitive Comments Left by Entitled Christian Mothers, and the Men Who Support Them, Under the Post ‘Don’t Ask Moms To Stand In Church This Sunday (Mother’s Day)’
As of 2018, the snotty entitlement and insensitivity of some mothers – and Christian men who support them – continues.
I’ve been blogging about this topic for a few years now on this blog. It makes me sad to see this still going on.
DefendTheSheep (person on Twitter) tweeted out a link to this reasonable essay imploring Christians to be more sensitive towards those who find the Mother’s Day holiday painful. Link to that:
(Link): Don’t Ask Moms To Stand in Church This Sunday
My problem is not with the essay itself.
As a matter of fact, I encourage you to click the link above to visit the page and read it.
My problem was with some of the hideous comments various people left below the page.
Some of the comments were just incredibly insensitive or very mistaken about why some people find Mother’s Day – especially when it’s celebrated during church services – to be hurtful or stressful.
Christians often like to teach that parenthood and marriage are necessary to make people more giving and loving and compassionate, but that is not so. The married parents leaving comments under blog posts such as the one I am discussing here are very selfish and entitled – being parents has done nothing to make them more loving, caring, or empathetic.
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(Link): The Changing Profile Of Unmarried Parents
A growing share are living with a partner
One-in-four parents living with a child in the United States today are unmarried. Driven by declines in marriage overall, as well as increases in births outside of marriage, this marks a dramatic change from a half-century ago, when fewer than one-in-ten parents living with their children were unmarried (7%).
At the same time, the profile of unmarried parents has shifted markedly, according to a new Pew Research Center analysis of Census Bureau data. Solo mothers – those who are raising at least one child with no spouse or partner in the home – no longer dominate the ranks of unmarried parents as they once did. In 1968, 88% of unmarried parents fell into this category.
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(Link): How A Rare Poison Could Help Bring The First Male Birth Control Pill to Market
After decades of research, development of a male birth control may now be one step closer. My colleagues and I are working on a promising lead for a male birth control pill based on ouabain—a plant extract that African warriors and hunters traditionally used as a heart-stopping poison on their arrows.
…Today, men have just two choices when it comes to birth control: condoms or a vasectomy.
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The Dangerous Risks of Putting Motherhood on a Pedestal by C. Millard
The Dangerous Risks of Putting Motherhood on a Pedestal by C. Millard
…Note the double-edged sword of motherhood here. Attracting the praise of being a “good mother” was always accompanied by the threat that you might fall from the perch at any moment and cause devastating harm to your child.
Hence the amplification of mechanisms of control, censure, and punishment that go hand in hand with the valorization and surveillance of parenting. Deep within the medical and psychological frameworks promoting motherhood in this period, there lurks male anxiety over female power and influence.
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